Root of emotional eating

Seems alot of us are battling emotional eating.Mindless eating when we are not even hungry.The stress I am under is unbearable at times. I am so glad I had a fill last week and I cannot over eat but this tool works to a point and then I will go back to the mindless eating. I need to get this under control the root and cause. I have mean nasty inlaws and dealing with both of them end of life care is taking a huge toll on me. Both have dementia and the death bed confessions has ABOUT destroyed my hubby and myself deeply.. the alligations are so unreal and yet mind blowing how does someone keep secret like that especially when it could have a huge impact on my children and my well being.Thank God the alligation are so untrue and when I asked my kids they assured me their uncle is mental on drugs and needs therpy and unfounded but brought back my root and cause why I became obese, Like many people who battle obesity many of us have a molestation or rape back ground and to ignore it does not make it go away. Ten years of therpy and a self commitment to a mental ward 10 years ago help me to stop the self abuse distructive cycle. I was a cutter and I ran from pain.. But I replaced it with Food and over eating and beCAME morbid obese Talk about continuing the self torture self abuse cycle I was not dealing with my issues I am so mad right now and angry at my inlaws I was hoping God would take them now!! So I can be done with his family but NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO they are gonna be the type that are gonna probally live to be 100 and demented. Ok they both have dementia been already documented LOL I know I am surely not alone in the outlaws issue. Maybe we should have contest on who has the worst inlaws .. LOL I know I will win the most crazyest (did I spell that right?) and most dememted inlaws. I so want to eat them away but they would not even taste good with ketchup LOL They are so not worth one bite of MINDLESS ANGRY food or extra calorie eating I JUST NEEDED TO VENT!!! I love the Idea of a massage and body rub but dammit with gas prices I have no extra money to pamper my self but nooooo it was spend on gas seeing dealing with the inlaws and taking care of their ungreatful sorry !@#$%^&* Dont get me started on gas prices I Paid $4.45 a gallon. I spent 100 dollars to go there to help them that could have paid for 2 massages. OK ALL I AM DONE VENTING I feel better Lisa

I will play My mother in law tells my husband that there is no way my son is his because we don't have thoes kind of people (autistic) in our family. Oh and that I was a ***** who was sleeping with all my roomates (we had a five bedroom house when we met with 3 other roomates thats how we met) so it was one of theres! I fixed her ass made her pay 700.00 for a dna test on both kids and now she can't say anythingf because i proved her wrong now that was the tip there is much more but hey well save that for a rainy day lol lucky for me she lives in colorado haha dee

Having 2 autistic kids my self my mother in law felt because I was latin and hubby is white is reason my kids are autistic Talk about ignorance. I cannot beleive she would doubt that he was her grandson. Does she call her self "auntie vickie" instead of grandma? Hard to believe she actually paid for a DNA test. LISA

lol auntie vickie My in law was so sure I was cheating . Has your inlaw ask your husband to move to colorado and forget her and that kid. Oh and don't worry about child support most men don't support there kids anyway. Oh and then there was putting an ad in the chinese newspaper for a girlfriend for him when we first started dating. Yep I am white and he is asian and I am not good enough for him pssssst ask me about her second husband ok ok I will tell you he is white. I use to get really hurt and mad but now I find it funny she is a wack job. dee

Better yet she was setting him up on dates when we were engaged. She got him enrolled in a college far away to try and breck us up Just made us want each other more LOL No matter what we won in the end.I can laugh about it now to bad I had to eat my way threw those years , Sad part No one is willing to take her in if she when she has no money and left pennyless in her golden years, But everyone is willing to take in grandpa Hmmmmmmmmmm Man I cannot believe how many chips and cookies I ate dealing with this woman, and get this she is anorexic Lisa

HAHAHAHAH! I thought I was the only one that had to deal with this. My mother in law thinks my oldest is autistic because we took him hiking too much in the baby-backpack and it 'shook' him too much. She also used the word "way-laid" to describe our parenting of him.. and that's the reason he's autistic. Nothing to say about the next two very typical kids we have had together. Sheesh. I don't know what's worse.. that ... or people telling me that Joshua isn't autistic.. just in need of some good discipline. (He's very well behaved and respectful, just doesn't like people touching him or loud noises and needs structure in order to function properly) If I have someone watch my kids, I make sure to have a list of things Joshua gets to do before I get back. That way he can cross it off the list and have some structure to his day.. if he doesn't have that, then he ends up getting in trouble. My mom, when I told her of the diagnosis from the neurologist... Her exact words where.. "Autism? that's the same crap they said you had when you where 4 years old. I never believed it and you shouldn't either!" LOL gee thanks mom for telling me! Anyways..... LOL Cookie anyone? (just kidding!) -Shakeira