Libido woes?

Don't have any libido. Still. Haven't for days, months, years. Thought losing so much weight would help, but hasn't done a thing for me in this department. Hubby not happy about that and is amazed it hasn't returned despite weight being less than when we got married! I have gyn appt next month. We'll see what she has to say. Again.

I am so glad this got posted. I have been thinking about this subject a lot. I feel so much better about myself, my body feels better, I LOVE my husband, why is there no interest or thought??? I feel so bad for him-he has been VERY patient. I was thinking about going to the Dr and getting some testosterone or something to kick things into gear. On the other hand, I think the back pain is part of the problem. It is hard to think about much else when you are hurting. I told hubby that I thought the back ache was blocking the signals, so if he would just rub the ache out.... Yeah, I know a scam to get a back rub but it works!!!! Glad to know I am not alone.