Just had to say this

I am in Modesto Ca taking care of my inlaws as one is in hospice and the other is in hosptial suffered a blood clot to her leg.. My father in law is starving to death due to kyposis severe compression of the neck and eating with his head in bent forward posistion makes meal times hard he weighs about 80 lbs. I been feeding him around the clock and he seems to eat pretty well when asssitng him with eating.. he is eating alot but he loses weight Amazing part he is eat more than hubby and I combined and he is 80 lbs and I am 218 and hubby is 179 Last night I feed him 7 oz of meat loaf and 3/4 cup of mashed potaoes and 1/2 of green beans with 6 oz of insure and a cookie for dessert Hubby had 4 oz of meatloaf and 1/2 cup of mashed poatoes 1/2 cup of green beans no cookie I had 1 oz meat loaf 1 oz of mashed potatoes 2 green beans and I still only continue to lose a pound or 2 a week .. not like i am eating weigh****chers size portions here .. but what gives????? he ate more than both of us combined talk about metabolism difference . who said obesity is not your fault .. really proves some of our obesity is caused my metabolism and not all because we have no self control .. Life is intresting

Wow Lisa... Well You know how I think about all this obesity stuff..But I do hope that your in-laws are comfortable and you are doing a great job stepping in helping...God bless you...and your family...Hey take care and I will talk to you soon

I would love to give him some of my weight ... here he is starving to death his body will not gain and i am trying to lose weight .. by eating so little.. life can be so unfair ... Very sad situation .. I sometimes feel so guilty for being so fat ... Lisa