Panic time
Ok I'm having a hernia repair and abdominoplast(fluer de lys) on Wednesday and now it's panic time. How many live alone and don't really have any one to help? Do I really need someone?
I can get help from my 90 year old father, but he really wasn't that much help after my open RNY 3 years ago. Do I need him to com 170 miles to help? All of my close friends think that I need some family member here during the surgery. I have a friend who will come and stay at the hospital but won't come to my apartment. She can't do the stairs to my condo. Should I make arrangements for her to drive me to my father's home?
I really don't want him to come he's been through so much this summer, being the caregiver for my brother who died from lymphoma in August.
Anyone have any ideas?
I can get help from my 90 year old father, but he really wasn't that much help after my open RNY 3 years ago. Do I need him to com 170 miles to help? All of my close friends think that I need some family member here during the surgery. I have a friend who will come and stay at the hospital but won't come to my apartment. She can't do the stairs to my condo. Should I make arrangements for her to drive me to my father's home?
I really don't want him to come he's been through so much this summer, being the caregiver for my brother who died from lymphoma in August.
Anyone have any ideas?
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