Dianne - you'll know when it feels right. I had a date Fri nite with someone I met on Cupid.com and I actually told him about halfway through the nite. He kept telling me how gorgeous I was, etc. etc. and I told him he needed to know something about me and then I told him I used to be alot heavier and had lost a lot of weight and how I did it. He still thought I looked great. We'll see if we ever get advanced to the intimate stage if he feels the same way when he sees my skin. I hope by then he'll be so infatuated it won't matter!!! ha ha.. Good luck to you!! Janie

Thanks RAE! Dianne

Dianne, congrats on dating...that is a HUGE step...and even though I am very happily married, just the idea of dating scares me...you look amazing...you have obviously taken charge of your life...YOU are the real catch!! I suggest enjoying his company and telling him when you are comfortable with him knowing...no reason to share with a stranger. Enjoy!! RAE

Thanks for all your replies. I'm having good days and bad days. It seems like more bad. Hopefully things will look up soon. In the past I'm sure I could have eaten my way through this. Now, I just plain don't eat. My dr. tells me she doesn't want me to lose more so I guess I'll have to force myself. I know I'm not going back to protein shakes -- can't stand them. Will have to find something I'm hungry for. Weight this morning was 135. I never would have guess in my wildes imagination I'd get there. I'm afraid to lose more, but don't want to gain either. I think it was easier being fat. Janie

So happy for you! Sounds like you are doing just fantastic!