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Topic: RE: Pregnant!
Congrats Olga! Exciting news. My surgery date was one day before yours and I'm about 22 weeks pregnant now. At my one year checkup (done a few weeks early) my docs cleared me for pregnancy though I was asking about birth control at the time.
The only way I can figure out how to get to the pregnancy board is to go through the main entrance and through the various forums there. Hopefully someone will have good directions for you! Look forward to seeing you there!
Aylene
278.8/170/150ish goal....up about 6 lbs with baby! But pants size still getting smaller except in the tummy LOL
Topic: RE: Can you believe your success!!
Hi Lori, I am 5'8 and started out at 277. I did not really realize how big I was until I developed my film about 1 month out. I guess I was just deluded on how I looked.
but even though I have had a few bumps in the road, I am pretty happy with how I look now, I do have a problem with my upper stomach area, the doctor fixed my hernia next to my belly button (he took the belly button too) and did a TT. but my upper belly still has the extra skin so it looks weird!
I guess sometime after the first of the year my surgeon is planning on fixing the hernia in my upper belly and doing a TT up there also and making the whole belly look even.
My surgeon gave me a goal weight of 170, I past that up and have been sitting at 150 for about a month and a half. I will be happy if I dont lose anymore.
I bought some Lee jeans today with a "LEAN" cut! wow, and they are a size 8 double wow since I started at a 26W.
as soon as it gets cooler, was about 99 here today, i will start walking again, did it only twice this past week since it was so hot, but maybe I will start to lose again once I get out there and walk.
one great thing I am the lightest person in the house. that includes my hubby, my 18 year old son and 16 year old daughter,
Donna
277/150
Topic: RE: Can you believe your success!!
Lara - I think you've done a terrific job but I really understand your feelings about the skin. You are doing the right thing in getting some counseling about it. You are a dynamite woman and I'm sure that you were prior to your surgery. I think it's very important for us to love ourselves - fat, thin, with excess skin, without it, old, young. Our value as people does not change.
Hugs to you too!
Ruth
Topic: RE: Can you believe your success!!
no i can't started at 293 now weigh 145 surgery 4/21/04 and we were born again on the same date...yeah
Topic: RE: Can you believe your success!!
Right before my surgery, I met a woman who had WLS. This lady had me excited and hopeful to loose 80 lbs in three months, which of course did not happen. But I met with her last week, she barely recognized me. She told me that I need to prepare myself for year # two because so many people who have WLS get so depressed, and I am seeing that in your posts and in my personal being.
One of the comments my sister made regarded me doing this to find a man, which is furthest from the truth, but I guess our expectations get a little distorted through this journey.
I too keep thinking I hit goal of 148, today I weight 139, but I wonder if I can get to 135 or maybe even 130. I am no longer challenged to loose weight but challenged by the weight loss, if that makes sense. I too have loose saggy skin, bat wings, and of course thighs that look like they were hit by a Mack Truck and if you lift my pants legs you see my (*)(*)'s.
But I want to say one thing to you all....Thank you!!! If it were not for your successes and plateaus, and your advice regarding my horrible love life, I think I would be sitting here depressed worried what to or not expect next. So no matter how depressed you get, know that you are helping someone like me stay ahead of the game. I appreciate you all and want you to know that I am here for you all, just as you have been for me, and I will help you get over the hump just as you have me.
I know it is hard not to obsess about our malformities but we are not alone and we all are feeling similar thoughts. Together, we will get through this.
(Hugs)
Lori
Topic: RE: Are we all falling apart these days?
No real complications - Elevated liver enzymes which could be from anti-cholesterol meds. We're working on finding out. But I've been maintaining below my goal for 4 months now! Feeling great.
Ruth
Topic: RE: Pregnant!
hello all,i would like to let you know that i am pregnant too.i had my surgery in aprip and my dr. told me that i had to wait 1 year to get pregnant so we did.but know i am pregnant.i'm 7 weeks.good luck.oh i wanted to see if you can tell me how to get to the pregnant board.lol thank you.
Topic: RE: Can you believe your success!!
I read everyone's responses, and I totally understand! I feel like I am on a rollercoaster ride! One minute I feel great! I'm so much healthier and much more active! I never dreamed I could actually get this far! I'm 4 pounds from goal (145).
Then the next second I can only see all of the extra skin, and all of the things I would still like to change! Then I start considering if maybe I would be happier at 135? Also I found the realization that I am settling into a life of maintenance kinda depressing.
I was never naive enough to think losing weight would solve all of my problems, but I never really realized all of the problems I blamed on being overweight, that are still there -125 pounds later.
It is really nice to hear my feelings are kinda "normal" though!
Mae
Topic: RE: Are we all falling apart these days?
This is such a good post. I am glad to see I am not the only one having a few issues. I don't like to complain because I would do this again in a heartbeat but here it goes:
low blood sugar - reactive hypoglycemia that I can't get under control - only staying very very low carb works and I just love fruits and oatmeal
gas gas gas - I am always full of it. I had an ultrasound tech comment on how bad it was - she could actually see it on my pelvic ultrasound (no I am not pregnant, it was for something else)
In the last month or two, I have developed a dairy intolerance. It seems to come and go and I never know why but I haven't completely eliminated dairy. I love pudding but never under any cir****tances can I eat ice cream - sugar free or any other kind - sick sick sick
Lastly, my weight loss has stopped - I'd like to consider that a "complication" as I would like to loose 10 more pounds before my tummy tuck in October.
Topic: RE: Can you believe your success!!
I don't really see it to be honest. I keep trying, but I get lost getting hung up in the skin. I'm lower than I ever imagined possible and have maintained it for 6 months now. I really don't understand it and it is weird.
The skin really bothers me - I'm in therapy about it. I keep fixating on it and hating it instead of loving me. Its pretty brutal to be honest. I had a bit of a breakdown over it this week - my girl is being really good to me about it all. I try and work through this - working out to get a strong lean body under this nightmare of excess flesh. I can feel my muscles in my abs developing, and I can see my legs and arms toning under the liquid bread dough. I just wish I didn't have to delete the parts of me I don't like to love me. Until I can learn to love me exactly as I am. . . I probably shouldn't get plastics anyway right?
Anyway. CONGRATS on your amazing success - you're a hottie and its more than an notion that you're doing sensational.
Big hugs,
~Lara