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on 1/22/04 4:00 am - Glen Burnie, MD
Topic: 9 MONTHS POST-OP TODAY
Today is my 9 month anniversary from surgery. The inches have flown off . I have lost 12 inches off my chest, 17 inches off my waist, 19 inches off my stomach, 16 inches off my hips, 11 inches off of each thigh, I've lost 5 & 6 inches off of each knee & about 6 inches off of each calf. There are a couple of other things that I measure as well. These are the major areas. I have lost a total of -131.25 inches! However, my weight loss is crawling downward, slowly, or so it seems. I am very happy when I run into someone that I haven't seen in a while & I see how shocked they are at my weight loss. I have gone from a tight 24/26 to a very comfortable 16 or a regular large. My shoe size has dropped from 8.5 W to a 7! I have kept up with my lab work. I suggest that everyone does that. Get copies of all tests for your own files. My cholesterol became normal at 3 months PO. My tryglicerides became normal at 6 months PO. My blood pressure is normal, now. My GERD is gone. Surgery has been such a blessing. However, I am not absorbing my calcium (& I do use 1500mg of calcium CITRATE daily). We don't absorb calcium CARBONATE properly. The test that we need is called a DEXA scan. It measures bone density. I now have osteopenia. It is when your bone density is between normal & having osteoporosis. If anyone has any advice on this dilemma, I would appreciate hearing what you know. My iron levels are, also, low. My BMI is 30, now. Down from 44 or 45. My daughter has a real problem with the butterfly that is emerging within me. She does not want me to date. I have been dating a gentleman for about 4 months & she said a lot of vicious things to him & about him. Last week he told me that he really cares about me, but can't take her attitude...... I went through this surgery to gain my health back & have a full life. That includes being in a relationship to me. So, needless to say, I am sad about this most recent occurrence in my life. She is the most important thing to me, besides God. But she wants to be the ONLY important thing to me, as far as people go. Hopefully, she won't do this to me again. I hope my words have helped someone & thanks for letting me blow off some steam.....
Leonita DiCintio
on 1/20/04 10:48 pm - Ottawa, Canada
Topic: RE: Elizabeth Adams
Congrats! Keep up the good work! Lee Mott - Ottawa, Canada
Elizabeth A.
on 1/20/04 5:41 am - Wharton, WV
Topic: Elizabeth Adams
I am almost 9 months out and have lost 86 pounds. I'm feeling good about myself.
Cindy Peck
on 1/19/04 11:41 pm - North Waterboro, ME
Topic: RE: normal loss?
Shay, I think that we have to step back and remember before the surgery. We all had our "Emotional" eating habits. And it is great that you recognized through the loss of your brother you started to sway towards those habits. I think the biggest thing is our body just doesn't want to let go of that weight! I commonly look at plateaus as a way for us to emotionally say "Hey, look how far we have come!" The weight will come off, but get back into the mode of feeling great about your accomplishments, you will find that you want to get a little motivated about some form of excercise. Remember, it really only takes 20 minutes 3 days a week to get a good regimen going. I know you are busy with school, but ya' know I say "It's All About ME!" and I do make time, I hate it... I start off the workout with a huge growl, but I end with a huge sigh of relief because I feel so great. And the weight started coming off again! And I sleep INCREDIBLE! Keep up your hard work.... you are an individual and try not to compare to others... EVEN THOUGH YOU KNOW WE STILL DO.... this only adds to the depressed state!
wizz46
on 1/19/04 9:07 am - In
Topic: RE: normal loss?
Hi Shay I give you a big hand for loosing 150 pounds, WOW that is GREAT! not everyone will loose at the same rate and it does slow down, and you will have plateaus. All you can do is keep up the good work, and maybe as it gets warmer outside you will be able to get out and get more exercise then. Do you get enough calories and protien a day along with water? Keep up the good work and "enjoy the ride!" Rosemary open RNY4/24/03 >100
Shay W.
on 1/19/04 8:20 am
Topic: normal loss?
Hello everyone, My surgery was April 16, 2003. The morning of my surgery, I weighed 418. As of today, (01/19/04) I am at 268. So down 150 pounds. I guess this should be great and I should be happy, however, it seems I am not losing as fast as I would like anymore. After reading some people's weight loss on here for the same time frame and they weighed less than me and have lost the same, I am concerned I am not on track. My surgeon wants me to be at 200 by my one year anniversary, but I don't see that happening. Originally after surgery, my goal had been to be at 250 by Christmas, but that didn't happen. My younger little brother (23...little to me) passed away Labor Day weekend and admittedly, I did things I shouldn't have. Ate stuff I shouldn't and drank stuff I shouldn't have. I got back on track about 6 weeks after that but I have only lost 5 pounds since middle of November. What am I doing wrong? I can't really workout right now, I am going to school full-time. I know that sounds dumb and I need to make the time, but I am taking nine 3-hour courses a week right now, so 27 credit hours. Needless to say, I am almost always studying and don't have time to workout. i know that is part of the problem, but it still seems extreme to be so slow now. The day of my surgery, i was wearing size 34 pants (if they had elastic waist and had stretchy material in them) and 5x shirt if I could find one to fit my chest and arms. I am now wearing size 20 jeans (sometimes 22 depending on brand) and 2x shirts. BUT, I still feel heavy at almost 270. Both my surgeon and PCP say my ideal weight for height, size etc is 150-160. Anyway, I've gone on and on but I want to hear advice from others.... Thanks, Shay
ticker M.
on 1/18/04 10:49 am - juneau, ak
Topic: Happy 9 mo's everyone
I've lost 108 as of the last few weeks... Stuck at 140 although I think its a good weight to be stuck at. I hope to be stuck here forever without gaining. I'm a little worried about loosing too much... Just dealing with it as I go though. Trying to stay healthy and take my vitamins. Deal with the head trips and people in my small town. That part really sucks. I would do it over in a heartbeat though and deal with everything I've been dealing with to have this gift. I love being small... Its weird to even say I am, I feel like I'm lying but I know that I'm not... Hope you all are enjoying it as much as me...
veronica W.
on 1/17/04 1:59 am - clinton twp, mi
Topic: RE: 9 months on 01/18, -140 happy dance!
Congrads to you!! I'm 9 months post-op and down 108lbs from 332 to 224 I never thought I'd be this small again! It really scares me when I see pictures of me befoe how big I really was.I have another 50lbs to lose and am trying for my birthday 4-18 to be at goal or close to it.I had my incision open at 5 weeks and scared me! but all is well and glad I had the surgery.Now I am head of our support groupThe Happy Losers Bariatric Support Group from Bi-County Hospital in Warren, Mich so If anyone is in the area the 3rd wedsday of the month come on down!! 6:30-8:00 pm.
tmc1958
on 1/16/04 3:44 am - Tallahassee, FL
Topic: RE: update on surgeery //from april 25,2003 surgery//WEIGHT 283# NOW 175#
Congratulations !!! I was a size 24 and am finally down to a size 12. It seems like decades since I wear size 12. I've got more energy and am working out 2 times a week. I have also been passing the word along to women who are interested and I'd do this again in a heartbeat. Actually, wish I would have thought of it when I was younger but 45 is not a bad age to do this. I weighed 236 and now weigh 143.
boemary
on 1/15/04 1:16 pm - Ocala, FL
Topic: RE: Its the incredible shrinking woman!!!!!
HI CHERISSE, I WOULD LOVE TO HEAR ANY SUGGESTIONS THAT YOU WOULD LIKE TO PASS ON! I THINK YOU HAVE DONE AN AWESOME JOB ON YOUR WEIGHT LOSS, C'MON GIVE ME THE WHOLE SCOOP GIRLFRIEND ! I WANNA BE JUST LIKE YOU ON THE LOSING SIDE! GOD BLESS MARY IN FL.
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