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I realize that this post is quite old, but I read it and had to pipe in. There are many articles out there about alcohol consumption and WLS. Doctors are warning people to limit alcohol intake because we don't metabolize it like a normal person. 5 oz of wine put you over the legal limit.
Now I'm going to speak from experience and I hope you listen. Don't just limit your alcohol intake. DON'T DRINK AT ALL!!! One of the things that can happen is "addiction transfer." This is where you used to be addicted to food, but now you've replaced it with the next best comfort, which is alcohol. I've been married for 27 years. I have four grown children. My husband is the most wonderful man that ever lived and I was looking forward to spending the rest of our lives as empty-nesters. Last Saturday he told me to leave after a major drunk binge the night before. He'd had it and was done with me. I am living alone now and my husband is hurt and wants a divorce. After watching me get drunk ever weekend for the past two years, he finally said enough. I am praying that we can work it out and he doesn't divorce me. But right now he only wants to be friends. I am 46 years old and never had a drinking problem before. I don't crave it, but once I start, I can't stop and I get black-out drunk. It has cost me my beautiful home and my family. My kids won't speak to me, and my husband is gone! It's not worth it!
Please say a prayer for me and don't EVER drink again!
I also have the same issues as you, I am out 5 1/2 years now. My surgery was in April 2003, quite some time ago and lots of medical problems ago! In the beginning I felt great thought that the WLS was a God send! Well now being this far out and all of the medical problems I have had, I would never have had this surgery if I had known what would happen to my body! It seems like I was not as informed as I could have been as far as what your body experiences when it cannot absorb the vitamins and nutrients it needs. I am 5+ years post op and I have to take vitamin D3 2000 IU a day besides all of the others, Biotin, Iron, Calcium chews 3x, multi-vitamin 2x, and many others. I have had hernia repair surgery for 7 hernias that occured post op 3 years! I have been out of work now for 3 years on disability due to Degenertive Disc Disease, the break down of my spine, lumbar disc all herniated. My cervical disc all herniated or stenosis, problems with my hips Bursitis & my knees Rhuematoid Arthritis. All of the problems I believe are due to the fact that the body cannot absorb the calcium and vitamin D it needs to sustain the health of the bone density, I am also showing signs of Osteoporosis. I am 48 years old and I have been on Social Security disabiltiy since Feb. 2006. I have been told that eventually I will end up in a wheelchair and that the problems with my cervical disc stenosising will eventually lead to me being paralyzed from the neck down, I am currently on a pain patch which I wear daily and also Oxycodone 30 mg. 4x a day. This is no way to live and I feel like all of the pre op meetings I attended and all of the research I did prior to having this surgery failed to inform me what would happen as the body could not absorb the nutrients that it needed. I wish I could go back 6 years and totally forget doing this surgery and just accepting myself as a large person because I have gained back 80% of the weight I lost and though I eat one small meal a day, I cannot lose the weight because I am not fueling my body. I would be happy just to drin****d coffee all day and not eat at all. I have stomach problems, sleep problems, I have been through a divorce.....so basically WLS has destroyed my life. If there is anyone else out there with a similar story I would like to hear from you and God Bless you all if you are experiencing what I am right now. Big Hugs, Sherry
on 7/23/08 4:53 am - ARCATA, CA