Flirtatious men? Jealous women?

I notice that I am being flirted with alot, for some reason men who knew you beofre the surgery think you are easy now....I have news for them! And women at work.. some will not even speak to me. One of the women talk behind my back all the time, the men at work tell me that!! Anyone else experience this? I am still the same person inside, or am I? This is a question I have been asking myself lately. I have been told that I am alot happier and nicer, do you think that ticks people off? I have come to realize a long time ago that you cannot please people. I just wish people were not so hateful.

Kathy, You probably have a new found confidence and upbeat attitude compared to pre-surgery. I have found that there are some people who get extremely upset when other people are happy. Usually, it's on account of them being very unhappy themselves. In my workplace, gossip by women about the people around them seems to be par for the course. Most likely you are just the current target, and it will change to someone else before you know it. Don't let yourself get caught up in negativity.... There are too many positives going on for you right now! Other people may feel uneasy, as they may not be all that familiar with your new diet requirements and lifestyle. I've had several people I work with say that I am an inspiration to them to lose weight. --Dave