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Topic: RE: Does size matter?
I always like it when I find that I made an instant opionion of someone because of their looks or they way the were dressed and it turns out I was completely wrong. It humbles me and hopefully I find that I have learned from the expierence. I have a nephew that is about 23, he has dreadlocks, wears tie dyed shirts and probably smokes a little of the wacky tobacky, but he is the most kind hearted "kid" I know.
I also have a grown daughter that has tatoos, which I don't necessarily agree with, but I'm not the one that will have to live with them for my entire life. We are all different and I must learn to adapt or be more tolerant. I guess it is just part of my "growing up" process. I hope I never finish.
Thanks for your comments. Rick
Topic: RE: Does size matter?
for I minute I was thinking your post was meant for the Men's board not us Marchers lol
very good question indeed! I agree if your honest with yourself you'll get the real answer. Of course we don't want to be ones to judge people especially since we were judged for so long. I remember being at that size I see people at who are struggling to walk from point A to point B and have mixed emotions. Yes, I remember being there, but I did something to correct it before I put my health in jeorpdy longer than I had.
Every morning theres a student who looks like hes in his mid 20's and is well over 300 lbs. He arrives 30 minutes before the library opens, sits on the bench and consumes 4 donuts with a large coolata within the 30 minutes before the library opens. It maddens me that people allow themselves to pollute themselves like that, but then I sit back and think... I did that too! I would watch a 2 hour movie and eat a bag of lindt truffles or eat a whole pizza for dinner just because it was there. I guess when you lose weight your sights change.
I don't know why, but as months go by being post-op, I find myself learning more about nutrition and finding ways to be more healthy than just losing weight. Sure we consume less calories and eat healthier "most" times, but I see myself researching ways to be healthier all the time instead of just most.
As far as gravitating toward a person because of comfort, I can't say I do that as I probably did when I was a pre-op. I'd like to say I treat people equally. I vowed to never turn into one of those bypass patients who lose weight, change their lifestyle and become too uppity for the people who were there during my journey. Someone that works at our clinic said that happened to another worker who had bypass surgery (surprised Barb?? ). She said before her surgery, she would stay in her office and was very shy. Now that shes a post-op (and years out), shes out there and her personality (and hair color/type) change more than the new england weather!
So-and-so from the office pointed at me and said "don't you ever get that way"!! what a reality check!
Topic: SF Pumpkin Cheesecake recipe
First recipe is regular cheesecake, and below is the pumpkin variation of it...
SF(Sugar Free)/Almost NF (Non Fat) New York Cheesecake
(adapted from a recipe given to me by Donna M. in my support group)
1 lb. NF or LF ricotta cheese (16 oz.)
1 lb. NF Philadelphia Cream Cheese (2- 8 oz. packages)
1 ½ cups Splenda
4 eggs (or Egg Beaters)
Juice of half a lemon
1 teaspoon Vanilla
3 tablespoons cornstarch
3 tablespoons flour
¼ cup butter/margarine (adds to fat, sorry)
1 pint fat free sour cream
Blend cream cheese and ricotta with an electric mixer. Add Splenda gradually. Beat in eggs one at a time. Add lemon, vanilla, cornstarch, flour, and butter. Blend until smooth. Then fold in sour cream. Spray nonstick cooking spray in a 9 inch spring foam pan/ pie plate (I use a round baking dish because this mixture is always too much for a pie plate. This is a deep dish cheesecake). Bake at 325 degrees for 1 hour. Check the middle of the cheesecake with a toothpick or knife to see if it comes out wet. If wet, bake longer, until toothpick/knife comes out clean. Turn off oven and let cheesecake stand another hour. Then refrigerate several hours before serving it cold.
CRUST: I often bake this without a crust, which is just as good, with a SF fruit topping over it However, if you want a low-carb cheesecake crust, use NUTS of any type. Almonds, walnuts, hazelnuts, pecans, whatever. (Make crust BEFORE the cheesecake)
Here's how: Use 1½ cups of nuts. Grind your nuts in a food processor or your Magic Bullet, to a medium-fine texture. Add about 3 tablespoons of melted butter. For extra protein, you can add unflavored or vanilla protein powder. Add about 1 teaspoon of Splenda (optional, depending on protein sweetness, if protein was used). Spray pie plate/spring foam pan w/ nonstick cooking spray and press mixture firmly and evenly into the bottom of the pan. Bake the crust at 350 degrees for 12-15 min or until lightly browned, and let it cool while you make the cheesecake filling.
Here's a holiday variation: Pumpkin Cheesecake!!
Use the above recipe (without the lemon juice, and using only 8 oz. of ricotta cheese). Add 1 can (15 oz.) of canned pumpkin (not pumpkin pie filling). Add ¼ cup Splenda brown sugar, ½ teaspoon cinnamon, ¼ teaspoon of nutmeg, and ¼ teaspoon ground clove. (Or use pumpkin pie spice) Blend this with the above cheesecake filling (or make separate bowls and swirl together in the pan for a "Pumpkin Swirl" cake).
For the crust, I use pecans, since pecans seem to go well with pumpkin.
Topic: RE: computer ate my homework
Rick-
I agree with Mimi, every day isn't really necessary. I don't even check in to this board every day... I am surprised that you've even been able to come up with stuff every day for as long as you have! LOL
Topic: RE: ROLL CALL: WALKERS WEEK 2
Thanks for my laugh for the day. I knew I shouldn't have mentioned the trucks. Oh well, the cats out of the bag now.
I told my wife about Jannine and all of her house work and she assured me that I do my share of the housework. I don't know though.
The only steps I used to count were when they were on an incline and I used to hate them, no so much anymore.
Have a great day, Rick
Topic: RE: ROLL CALL: WALKERS WEEK 2
Some of those airports are big just walking to the terminal could be a mile I remember when I went to vegas with my mom and sister, my sister was in front navigating and we walked a complete circle to the gate instead of just cutting through one of the side hallways.. oh well, extra exercise
Topic: RE: ROLL CALL: WALKERS WEEK 2
Whats the wife's email address Barbara and I have some pleasant words for her... Shes off the hook when it comes to house cleaning!
Count all those miles Rick, I'm sure you get plenty of activity in daily other than miles. Maybe I can find an equivalency to counting trucks? I still love that!! You know I use to count my steps from my desk to the teachers desk when I would get in trouble at school. When I read that your mom would tell you to go out and count cars the first thing I thought about is when I counted steps! can you tell I was introuble a lot!!
Topic: RE: Does size matter?
Barbara,
I am sorry if I reminded you of past hurtful memories, but I think it is important to know where we came from. We lived through those things and I would like to think we are better for it. We are more empathetic of others.
It seems that a lot of people try to stand out by the way they dress or due to "adornments" on their bodies. I always just wanted to blend in. May be we will have to figure out what it means to be "normal". I shudder at the thought of it.
Have a great day, Rick
Topic: RE: MARCHers going to goal!
Barbara,
I try not to look at it as a pain but more of living in a more positive routine. Now I would much rather do the right thing then suffer the guilt from not exercising, not eating right and not taking my vitamins. I have seen the benefit of doing the right thing and that is the choice I want to make in the future.
Thank you for these reminders,
Have a great day, Rick
Topic: RE: Does size matter?
Hummmm....what a thought provoking post. I think I see very obese people now and know what they are experiencing. I hate it when small kids point to very obese people and snicker..."look at the fat woman", or "why is that man so fat?"...those are hard things to hear. Or the little kid that says to his pregnant mommy...."mommy is that lady going to have a baby like you because her stomach is so big?"....I can remember all of those comments and how hurtful it is. When you walk past a group of construction workers and they all snickered and whispered and laughed. Now there is always the possibility they weren't snickering or laughing about me, but my perception was that is exactly what they were doing.
So I don't judge people by their appearance at this point in my life because I understand and appreciate their pain. My strongest desire would be to say...have you heard about WLS...but I would NEVER do that. Of course they have heard about it, they would have to be deaf not to have heard about it. But as we all know, it is a decision you must make for yourself.
I have always wanted to fit into whichever group I was involved with and perhaps now I do so with a bit more confidence. Just like last week when I had to give a speech in front of 250 veterans...I knew the subject manner just as good when I was 379 pounds, but I sure felt more comfortable giving my speech at my current size and feel like I was respected more for it - even though it would have been the same speech at the heavier weight.
I am just glad we fit in with the group of healthy individuals who have no co-morbidities....that has been my greatest fit to date. Thanks for the thought provoking post Rick. Barbara