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Topic: RE: Surgery Date
Congrats and don't forget to come back and up date with pics!!
Good Luck
Steph
Good Luck
Steph
Topic: RE: Surgery Date
Jannine,
You have worked hard and were persistent. Now you will be able to see all of the results from your effort.
Congratulations,
Rick
You have worked hard and were persistent. Now you will be able to see all of the results from your effort.
Congratulations,
Rick
Topic: Surgery Date
Just want to update...my TT is scheduled for 8-6-09...wahooooo...what a struggle it has been after 4 denials finally got the approval....if you are trying to get that approval keep going don't give up..hope everyone is enjoying the day.
Jannine
Jannine
Topic: RE: Tummy Tuck
Jannine,
Congratulations on the new belly button. I hope it is well centered. Are you going to put a ring in it? I'm just kidding, I think.
It will also be nice to get rid of the extra skin and get things tightened up.
Take care, Rick
Congratulations on the new belly button. I hope it is well centered. Are you going to put a ring in it? I'm just kidding, I think.
It will also be nice to get rid of the extra skin and get things tightened up.
Take care, Rick
Topic: Tummy Tuck
Just wanted to let everyone know that my TT was finally approved....wahooooooooooooo...I am so siked.....10-12lbs of exess skin from my belly gone forever and a new bellly button to boot....
Jannine
Jannine
~God, I love You. I will love You all the days of my life, with all my heart, my soul, my strength and my mind. I want to walk in Your ways all the days of my life. I thank you that I am a new creation in You and now can have the mind of Christ. Continue to transform me into Your very likeness so I may do all that You have called me to do. Amen.
Topic: RE: I am posting anonymously because I can't have my name attached to it
How arre you doing?
Jannine
Jannine
Topic: Plastic Surgery
Hey everyone...please keep me in your prayers I have submitted my paperwork for my TT we have all the correct information...so please pray for me.....I need the backing of all my Marchers.....
Love
Jannnine
Love
Jannnine
Topic: RE: I am posting anonymously because I can't have my name attached to it
HAHA! You can hug but no ass grabbing! Thank you for your perspective. I know that the consequences could be catastrophic. My world and the world of those around me would turn upside down if I were caught. I don't know why I am doing this despite the huge risks. In the rest of my life I am a very responsible and fairly conservative person but there is something about that thrill that gets me going. I can see how people turn to alcohol because I imagine that it is the same sort of instant gratification that I feel. I am looking at our thoughts on the screen and thinking first about my shock that I put this out there and secondly about how immature and selfish I am being.
Topic: RE: I am posting anonymously because I can't have my name attached to it
Hi there,
First of all my perspective is obviously from a male, but I think I can understand some of these feelings. I was obese my whole life so I never had the normal dating relationships when I grew up. I was fortunate that at the age of 28 someone that I worked with and became friends with had her husband leave her. (I know that sounds terrible, but it was good for me). I don't know that I would have found someone to share my life with if she hadn't been 40 years old and had two daughters to raise. I gladly stepped into the role to "save" them. I guess I took advantage of her bad situation.
Would my life have been different if I had been normal sized all along? I think so. Would I have had a larger pool of prospective mates if there were more women that could look past my size to see me? I think so. Do I regret the choices I made in my life? No. Next week we celebrate our 20th anniversary. Have we had problems? Yes.
Since loosing the weight I have felt the excitement of being noticed by females. I guess while being excited it was also scary. I wasn't used to it. I made a concious choice to not stray within my marriage. Would it have been exciting to have a little something on the side? Maybe
I want you to know that I certainly don't hate you for the choices you have made. While it may be exciting I think it probably also puts you under a major amount of stress. You are the only person that can decided if the choices you make are the right ones for you and if you are willing to live with the consequences that these choices may bring. I hope you choose the path that brings you true happiness for the long run and not just the excitement of today.
I'm sorry I don't have much advice, I can understand a lot of what you have said and I'm glad you reached out to your cyber friends. I hope you hear from other women so you can get their perspective.
If you think I can be helpful to you in anyway, you are welcome to send me a private message. I will not judge you.
Take care, and I am sending you a platonic hug (just kidding).
Rick
First of all my perspective is obviously from a male, but I think I can understand some of these feelings. I was obese my whole life so I never had the normal dating relationships when I grew up. I was fortunate that at the age of 28 someone that I worked with and became friends with had her husband leave her. (I know that sounds terrible, but it was good for me). I don't know that I would have found someone to share my life with if she hadn't been 40 years old and had two daughters to raise. I gladly stepped into the role to "save" them. I guess I took advantage of her bad situation.
Would my life have been different if I had been normal sized all along? I think so. Would I have had a larger pool of prospective mates if there were more women that could look past my size to see me? I think so. Do I regret the choices I made in my life? No. Next week we celebrate our 20th anniversary. Have we had problems? Yes.
Since loosing the weight I have felt the excitement of being noticed by females. I guess while being excited it was also scary. I wasn't used to it. I made a concious choice to not stray within my marriage. Would it have been exciting to have a little something on the side? Maybe
I want you to know that I certainly don't hate you for the choices you have made. While it may be exciting I think it probably also puts you under a major amount of stress. You are the only person that can decided if the choices you make are the right ones for you and if you are willing to live with the consequences that these choices may bring. I hope you choose the path that brings you true happiness for the long run and not just the excitement of today.
I'm sorry I don't have much advice, I can understand a lot of what you have said and I'm glad you reached out to your cyber friends. I hope you hear from other women so you can get their perspective.
If you think I can be helpful to you in anyway, you are welcome to send me a private message. I will not judge you.
Take care, and I am sending you a platonic hug (just kidding).
Rick
Topic: I am posting anonymously because I can't have my name attached to it
Okay, you all know me and I don't want my name attached to this thread on the web so I'm not saying who I am. I have a problem. Ever since I started to become more normal sized and started getting a lot of attention from other men, I have been enjoying it. I wear clothes that are snug and show off my curves, shirts that are a little too low cut on top and cute heels. A little over a year ago I became friends with a man and even though I am married, I enjoyed his attention and he was very handsome. Is very handsome. I began cheating with him. Since then there have been two others and the first one is still around as well as another that is occassional. I don't know how to handle these feelings, I've never had them before! I never, ever thought that this would be me. I could never imagine being "that" girl and yet here I am. It isn't that I don't appreciate what I have with my husband, I just get such a thrill out of teasing and getting (if I choose to) these men. Please don't hate me. I don't know who else to talk to. Everyone in my real life would FREAK OUT and I know that I should be freaking out too with guilt but I'm sad to say that the guilt isn't even felt anymore.
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