Sex....:)

Well, my hubby and I always had a pretty healthy sex life. After my daughter was born and I gained that extra 30 pounds I just didn't always feel like it. Well after surgery I noticed I was getting back my sex drive and I "feel" like it alot more often than I did. Now I am noticing a difference in my hubby. He has never been real affectionate. He will hold my hand some, hug me some, kiss me some, but never really been a touchy person. Here lately he is always hugging me, wanting to hold my hand, touching my face. (He just came in here and read this so now I am blushing!) He is just more affectionate. He always wants "lovings" more often too. The perv actually installed mirrors over our bed yesterday while I was gone to the new Harry Potter movie with our son! Can u believe that? In regards to the weight loss and sex, I am feeling more bones than I used too. By bones I mean, I can feel him, well, I don't mean this in a bad or nasty way but I he kind of smashes me more than he used too in certain positions. Any one else notice their partners wanting it more or just being more affectionate? Adam is also becoming somewhat insecure. We have never really be jealous of one another but he is kind of starting to be pretty jealous. I hope he gets over that. I love him, I want him. I will always love him. No matter how much weight I lose he is my husband and the one I love. God gave him to me and I won't disrespect our marriage vows or him by flirting or screwing around with someone else. Anyway, point of my post, sex for me post op is incredible! The new HP movie was great too! Hugs Angela 313-195-150? -118

Yes I can definitely say that i agree with you on certain matters but unfortunately for me my sex drives has left me. Lately maybe for the past 6-8 weeks i have not a had a sex drive. But when i do try to get in the mood and we do have sex i can definitely feel him more, and to me it is becoming painful so it is making me not enjoy having sex. When i first started losing the weight like in my 2-4 months and i only lost about 30-50lbs my sex drive was sky high and we did it like 3-4 times a day now that i have lost over 124lbs my sex drives has went to hell. I am hating it. I am going to see my GYN on Teus. to discuss some of this with her hopefully she can give me some advice. Because it could be a combination of the wieghtloss, me taking my birth control pills, and me having a poor body image since the weightloss, so hopefully i can work this out. Did you ever have any point when you did not desire sex, and if you did what did you do. Thank GOD someone is enjopying sex!!!! Tyshea 315/189/150

I know I want sex more now than I did when I was heavier!! I feel more attractive..except for the scars!! I have been back with my kids dad for 4 months now..after 8 years of being apart. We have our quirks to work out but things have been great! He tells me all the time how good I look and is always wanting to sneak upstairs when the kids are gone!! Its great and I enjoy sex alot more now!!! Not as much flubber getting in the way He has always been openly affectionate,,but more so now!! This is great!! Patti 270/184/160ish

Thank u both for replying. I tried to respond to u earlier but it wouldn't let me on here, lol! Angela

Angela, You are looking so pretty! In each picture you post, you look so different. If not for your name, I wouldn't recognize you. It is amazing. Glad to hear you and hubby are so happy. Becky

Thank u Becky! That is so sweet of u! Hugs Angela

Okay this is one of those TMI (too much information) things. But I have noticed hubby and I do touch in areas he used to float over- if you know what I mean. My sex drive has gone up and down. I do feel more attractive and playful and that helps alot. But there are times I feel awkward in my own skin. I mean really how much more can 2 boobs deflate and still be considered part of the upper torso anatomy! Anyway- sex is better and I actually look foward to what will be different each time.

I mean really how much more can 2 boobs deflate and still be considered part of the upper torso anatomy! LOL, I know exactly what u mean! Mine have fallen off the face of the earth it seems. But I keep reminding myself. Lose 45 more pounds and then we start thinking of implants, plastics, etc!!! Hugs Angela Happy Thanksgiving!