Pride in the face of sadness

My mother passed away on Sunday, June 26. I have always dealt with stress and difficult times by eating, so I really had to monitor myself this week (all the more because I was at my parent's home and didn't have access to the food and resources I have at home.) In spite of this, I lost another 4 lbs this week and I couldn't be prouder of myself that I stayed strong with my food, regardless of how I felt. I'm hanging in, emotionally, and my mom would be pleased that I'm not giving up the battle. Greg (342/246/178)

Hi Greg, My thoughts are with you during your time of sadness. You are right, your Mom is proud of you! Barbara

Greg, first let me offer condolences on the passing of your mother. And secondly, I know she's beeming with pride. Let us know if we can do anything for you. Toni Lap RNY 3/21/05 267/195

Hang in there Greg, nothing makes a mother more prouder than seeing her child reach their goals. Stay Strong, Retta

Condolences going your way. I have to say WAY TO GO on staying focused during this sad time. Im sure mom is very proud. My dad passed away 8 yrs ago I wish he could have lived long enough to see me and the progress I am making. He would be very proud. I know he is looking down on me with that big grin on his face and telling them all look at my daughter does'nt she look great. I will say a prayer for you and your family. Peace to you.

Greg, I am really sorry to hear about your mom... I have had my share of greiving as well so I know what you are going through. I am proud of u for hanging in there and staying strong throughout this difficult time. I always looked to food as well for comfort but its not there anymore and its tough when u are used to going to that. Stay strong and hang in there - my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Bonnie

I'm so sorry about your mom. I know what you mean about eating to feel better and now you can't eat to feel better. So, how are you making yourself feel better? Things I do are, talk to friends on the phone, get on this message board, take a bath, light a candle, put on some music, listen to inspirational TV (Joyce Meyer, Joel Osteen), hug on my dogs, accomplish a task, .... I hope you can manage your emotions. This is certainly a test for you. Good luck with it. I'm sure you'll pass with flying colors given the strong will that has gotten you through to this point. My thoughts are with you, Heidi

I'm really sorry to hear about your Mom. I've lot my Mom and I know that's not an easy death to cope with. Five years later I'm surprised at the sudden feelings of missing her or wishing I could tell her something. You're right. The best thing you can do in her honor is take care of yourself. She is proud of you. Donna