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Topic: RE: out
laying low for me. my firend who lives in the same town as i and works in norwich called on the way into work so we chatted. she has a headset hands free! she said the roads were bad too we didin't talk for long so she could concitrate. its not so much her as a driver she is good its those other idiots out there who think that they are invisible. usually you see them along the road after they zoom past.
i'm terrified to drive in snow. i would be a hazard to the other drivers so i really believe its best for me to be home and not go out into it. today i am really not feeling well of course my boss won' tbelieve me but i am fortunate in that they are understanding. i also work here i'm not a slacker and have sold some things too. that makes al lllll of us happy!
trying to save for a new couch. i d din't get as much back from income tax this year and had to pay off some things so the rest needed to go to emergency fund/savings. i've got a separet account for the new couch. its goign to take me forever! just when i think i have enough is when the car breakes down or the dog has to go to the vets or something in the house falls apart. forget about goign away vacations! i'd love to go to disney this year but its not in the cards. maybe next year.
i'm terrified to drive in snow. i would be a hazard to the other drivers so i really believe its best for me to be home and not go out into it. today i am really not feeling well of course my boss won' tbelieve me but i am fortunate in that they are understanding. i also work here i'm not a slacker and have sold some things too. that makes al lllll of us happy!
trying to save for a new couch. i d din't get as much back from income tax this year and had to pay off some things so the rest needed to go to emergency fund/savings. i've got a separet account for the new couch. its goign to take me forever! just when i think i have enough is when the car breakes down or the dog has to go to the vets or something in the house falls apart. forget about goign away vacations! i'd love to go to disney this year but its not in the cards. maybe next year.
Topic: RE: Am I doing the right thing?
Pammy, I am so happy that your son is doing better. Maybe my nephew will work it out. I hope so. He was so upset that he is being made to go out into the slums and take food and water to indigents and pray with them. The idea being" there but by the grace of God." It's a christian rehab/scared straight program that lasts 9-12 months. I am praying this does the trick.
Topic: RE: out
Hi Pam, her name is Crissie... I just got into work and I have to tell you the roads are trecherous. Should get better as the temp warms up but I was scared to death and my care was slipping all over the place. This has been the Winter From Hell! I've had a rough time of it these last few days but am really getting to a place of understanding with it all - I think "healing" is on the horizon for me, thanks for your good thoughts. Be careful out there today and get that UTI taken care of! Maureen
Dream as if you'll live forever, live as if you'll die today.
Topic: out
i am out sick today. have a nasty UTI going to the doctors soon to take care of business. Not feeling too great right now but not major hopefully we've caught it before the big pain starts!
of course everyone at work will think i'm out because yet again CT has been hit with another snow storm. only 4 to 6 inches in my area. arggg it might as well be 12 feet as far as i'm concerned i'm terrified to drive in the white crap.
yes its pretty. i love how pretty it is. but i don't have to like it.
so today i'm tring to do other things to take my mind off of the UTI facebook emails goign to try to do some reading of course bill as usual.
wondered how everyone is doing.
reenie i was looking for your food posting i' hoping your doing as great as you were.
judy are you still down? hope your feeling better soon.
Can't remember your name! opps my age is showing but and i can't get the thought of your son stealing from his grandmother and his mothrer. very sad.
of course everyone at work will think i'm out because yet again CT has been hit with another snow storm. only 4 to 6 inches in my area. arggg it might as well be 12 feet as far as i'm concerned i'm terrified to drive in the white crap.
yes its pretty. i love how pretty it is. but i don't have to like it.
so today i'm tring to do other things to take my mind off of the UTI facebook emails goign to try to do some reading of course bill as usual.
wondered how everyone is doing.
reenie i was looking for your food posting i' hoping your doing as great as you were.
judy are you still down? hope your feeling better soon.
Can't remember your name! opps my age is showing but and i can't get the thought of your son stealing from his grandmother and his mothrer. very sad.
Topic: RE: Am I doing the right thing?
I wish I had words of whisdom but i don't. Reenie and you both make perfect sense.
My youngest had some issues years ago that I had to work through with tough love. it was the hardest thing in the whole world to do.
at one point he wanted to move in with me he was living on a flea infested mattress at a friends house. no job no car no food he smelled really bad. my other two kids begged me to take him in. i laid down the law.
he woudl be allowed to live there only if he had a job. he had to pay me rent. no drugs or alcohol. no friends at my house. he said how will i get to work? i said you have two good feet. i live close to several stores. my oldest son took the younger one to one of them and he got the job right then. then they brought his things home
i made him stick to everything and told him if i had a hint of him doing anything that i did nt approve of i woudl be the one to call the police.
he's a good young man now. that was 10 years ago.
My youngest had some issues years ago that I had to work through with tough love. it was the hardest thing in the whole world to do.
at one point he wanted to move in with me he was living on a flea infested mattress at a friends house. no job no car no food he smelled really bad. my other two kids begged me to take him in. i laid down the law.
he woudl be allowed to live there only if he had a job. he had to pay me rent. no drugs or alcohol. no friends at my house. he said how will i get to work? i said you have two good feet. i live close to several stores. my oldest son took the younger one to one of them and he got the job right then. then they brought his things home
i made him stick to everything and told him if i had a hint of him doing anything that i did nt approve of i woudl be the one to call the police.
he's a good young man now. that was 10 years ago.
Topic: RE: valentines day again
I wanna see!!! I wanna see!!!! Hope you had a wonderful time...you rebel lol
"To accomplish great things, we must not only act, but also dream, not only plan, but also believe" ----"Anatole France"
"Joyously grasp the ties that bind you, for they lead straight to the heart"---"Wm."
Kimberly...
Topic: RE: valentines day again
Pam, it's really easy to upload photos to your profile page! First, save the photo on your computer desktop. Then go to your profile page and just click on "photos" and then "upload photo" - if I can do it, anyone can! I'd love to see you in your dress! M.
Dream as if you'll live forever, live as if you'll die today.
Topic: RE: Am I doing the right thing?
Thanks so much for just being here. I did go down there just to face him and tell im pretty much what you suggested. He started trying to turn on the tears and wanting to come home and I had to lay down the law and tell him no. I spoke to the reverend who runs the facility who has a chekered past himself and he says that he is keeping an extra eye on him and kn ows the signs of manipulation and doesn't allow him to get by with his crap. I told him I needed to have time to get over being so furiously angry and left him there. I had seriously decided to not go until I found out my brother was going to visit. I love him, but he is a mess. It's like we were raised in different homes. He was and is not ever there when my nephew needs him. He 's trying to make up for not being a good daddy by being a good buddy. He would have signed him out. We had a few words, but as I still have the check, I hold the hammer. He will probably hate me forever, but I have to hurt him to save him. ANd oh yeah, My Valentine is here with me now. He fell in love with me at 350, loved me at 500, 195, and still does. He treats me like a princess and my Mom like a queen. He's also the best Dad ever. Got a silver locket with a handpainted rose on it for Valentine's Day for me when I got back from that mess. He took me to Max & Erma's for grilled chicken with tropical fruit salsa. It was devine. When I came into the house he had also brought me a beautiful live orchid. WHen life sucks, Something always comes along to lift you up when you need it most. Friends and famly are what counts at the end of the day. Even if they too suck sometimes Happy VAlentine's Day, Love Crissie
Topic: RE: Am I doing the right thing?
God, I'm so sorry. I will try to respond with some neutrality because these cir****tances will only be worsened with extreme emotion. My kneejerk response, Crissie, is that he needs time away from you - his family - and find his own feet to carry him through this by working with the professionals who are there to help him. I would suggest that you tell him that he needs to show real evidence that he intends to make things right by honoring your expectations, and that he should put all his energy into getting well. Tell him you will be there for him when it is a better time but that time is not now. Please don't convey to him that you are 'abandoning' him, physically or emotionally. Tell him instead that these are very serious and hurtful cir****tances and you all need time to heal. There will be time to talk then. And then pray. Pray that he finds his feet to carry himself up and out of this mess of a life. You know, it doesn't matter the substance - drugs, alcohol, food ... we're all trying to do the same thing. Fill up a huge gaping hole that has been caused by experiences when we were very young - whatever those experiences, that doesn't matter either. We are trying to fill up the hole so we will stop hurting. Love your nephew. Tough love, but love nonetheless. And take good care of yourself and your husband - he sounds like a real partner... be well, Crissie. I will pray for your nephew. Be well. Maureen
Dream as if you'll live forever, live as if you'll die today.
Topic: RE: valentines day again
my tatto is a little rose i got it when i went through my divorce at 42 years old. i felt like such a rebel hahaha my young son 31 years is covered with them i think it is drastic but he likes them. my daughter had one years ago on her ankel she said it was very painful. mine wasn't. i was afraid i'd chicken out at the last minute but i surprised everyone including myself hahaha
the dress was a success!
the dress was a success!