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Joan Stonehill
on 11/8/08 10:41 pm - TN
Topic: RE: The doctor scared me today!!
I also went to my gyn yesterday and gained 3 pounds since last year.  He did not comment on my weight since I really didn't gain all that much and is still within a normal range, however, he did tell me that at my age  (52) even though I am exercising and (basically) eating healthy, I should try to take in about 400 less calories a day.  He said as we age, our bodies burn calories slower and to maintain a normal weight, or the same weight, we have to eat a little less. 

It is easy for your doctor to say to go back to eating as if you first had the surgery.  Obviously, she does not know much about your anatomy after the surgery or she would not have said that.  Personally, I can't sustain myself on a half a cup of yogurt and a half a cup of cottage cheese a day.  That's what I ate for the most part after surgery, with a few protein bars thrown in.  I don't know how much you've gained or how over weight you are, but your doctor sounds like a bit of an alarmist.  Leaving off the carbs is not the answer.  Healthy, well balanced eating is.  And, of course, some form of exercise. 

Take care, eat healthy and be well!
Joanie
reenieb
on 11/7/08 4:51 am
RNY on 03/08/04 with
Topic: RE: The doctor scared me today!!
JUDY, YOU CAN DO THIS! WHAT CAN WE DO TO HELP YOU??? I think you REALLY need to reconnect to the surgery, sweetheart. Do you feel like you're thinking and behaving like a person who never had the surgery? Do you feel more like a person who is simply overweight - living an overweight or obese life - the same way you did before your surgery and loss of a lot of that weight? Do you feel MORE like that person than a person who had the surgery, went through all of what that entailed, went through that JOURNEY - have you LOST TOUCH with your journey??? That's the path you need to rediscover, Judy. This is so, so, so, so hard... Love you, Reenie
Margo M.
on 11/6/08 7:43 pm - Elyria, OH
Topic: RE: The doctor scared me today!!
judy-you can--you just have to do it...i know- sounds easy......
you are in my prayers....................

I get up every morning determined to both change the world and have one hell of a good time. Sometimes this makes planning my day difficult.
- E. B. White

 

Ms.Judy
on 11/6/08 10:50 am - HOSCHTON, GA
Topic: RE: I'm back ladies, after being AWOL
I have gained weight and the doctor told this would make my feet worst. This is another reason I have got to get "Back on track" and lose the weight I've gained. My mouth is better, but I'm still using the medicine the doctor gave me. If I go a long time without using it my mouth wil start tingling and I know it's time to use it again. 
Things will surely get better , if I start back eating right..   Judy

God has given me this day to use as I will. I can waste it or use it for good. Today is very imporant, because I'm exchaning a day of my life for it.

Ms.Judy
on 11/6/08 10:41 am - HOSCHTON, GA
Topic: The doctor scared me today!!
I went to my GYN today for my yearly check up. My doctor is about 40 and about 4'10" and 100 pounds. She so pretty. She had 4 children and looks like she is their sister. She said it was time I quit fooling around and get this weight back off!! I said you have always been little and she said it was because she worked at it everyday of her life. She said she eats like a person that just had weight loss surgery. She said to go back to eating the same foods I did when I first had surgery. She said I wasn't going to die, but my quaility of life was going to be so awful. She said my cells would start breaking  down in my legs and I would have cellulosis (?).  She said at my age (60) I can't keep doing what I'm doing . I already knew this, but her saying it to me made me step back and take a long hard look at what my future holds if I keep eating like an idiot! I feel so bad and I can leave the carbs off for just a few days and I feel like a different person.
Please pray I can do "right"    Judy

God has given me this day to use as I will. I can waste it or use it for good. Today is very imporant, because I'm exchaning a day of my life for it.

KimberlyH
on 11/6/08 10:28 am
Topic: RE: I'm back ladies, after being AWOL
Hi Judy plantar fasciitis...OUCH...been there I was so bad at one point I would literally have to craw when getting up to go to the restroom in the morning...its no fun...glad the predisone shots are working for you, they didnt for me at all. Every few months Ide get a really bad flair up that would last for weeks at a time and have to sleep with some big spaceman boot on.  I have really havent had much a problem know that Ive lost the wieght but boy do I pray it never flairs up again. I took the predisone aswell....one reaction from that is weight gain specially in your face it will get sorta puffy, one of the reason you dont stay on it for long. Its a steriod but boy does it work. I have to go on it now occasionally for asthma, but is it a wonder drug. Also your mouth sounds like its a reaction called thrush (candidiasis)...it will go away, try rinsing regularly with warm sal****er and have your dentist prescribe a antifungall medicine it will usually clear up in about 10 days. Good-Luck....things will eventually look up!

"To accomplish great things, we must not only act, but also dream, not only plan, but also believe"  ----"Anatole France"

"Joyously grasp the ties that bind you, for they lead straight to the heart"---"Wm."


Kimberly...

Ms.Judy
on 11/6/08 10:08 am - HOSCHTON, GA
Topic: RE: I'm back ladies, after being AWOL
I'm still in slump. but I am praying real hard to over come this depression.  SUGAR is my worst enemy and I know it!! I'm like you I just want to go today with out it. Charles told me today that I was healthy and happy up until about 6 months ago.  He 's right , I had been working real hard to keep the weight off and  I was enjoying life even thought it was a struggle trying not to eat carbs. But I feel like I have aged more in the last six months that I did the first 59 years of my life!!  Love ya, Judy

God has given me this day to use as I will. I can waste it or use it for good. Today is very imporant, because I'm exchaning a day of my life for it.

KimberlyH
on 11/6/08 5:55 am
Topic: Wednesday's Recipe...a day late but still good
BerryBerry Cake

This cake is really gooooooood!!! 

1/3 cup PHILADELPHIA Light Cream Cheese Spread
3/4 cup splenda, divided 
2 egg whites 
2 tsp. grated lemon peel 
1 cup plus 2 tsp. flour, divided 
1/2 tsp. baking soda 
1/3 cup Fat Free Sour Cream 
3 cups mixed fresh blueberries and raspberries, divided (strawberries makes this really goood)
1-1/2 cups thawed COOL WHIP FREE Whipped Topping 



PREHEAT oven to 350°F. Beat cream cheese spread and 1/2 cup of the splenda in large bowl with electric mixer on medium speed until well blended. Add egg whites and lemon peel; mix well.
Mix 1 cup of the flour and the baking soda. Add to cream cheese mixture alternately with the sour cream, beating well after each addition. (Do not overmix.)
SPRAY 9-inch springform pan with cooking spray; spread cream cheese mixture onto bottom and 1 inch up side of pan. Toss 2 cups of the berries with remaining 1/4 cup splenda and remaining 2 tsp. flour; spoon over cream cheese mixture in pan to within 1/2 inch of edge.
BAKE 40 to 45 min. or until toothpick inserted in center comes out clean. Cool 10 min. before removing rim of pan. Top with the remaining 1 cup berries. Top each serving with 2 Tbsp. of the whipped topping.

NUTRITION INFORMATION : 

Nutrition (per serving)
Calories 150 Total fat 2g Saturated fat 1.5g Cholesterol 5mg Sodium 105mg Carbohydrate 30g Dietary fiber 2g Sugars 16g Protein 3g Vitamin A 4%DV Vitamin C 10%DV Calcium 2%DV Iron 4%DV
  Also if you use fresh berries it is less fattening and less calories...and tastes soooo good!!!

Enjoy!!!

"To accomplish great things, we must not only act, but also dream, not only plan, but also believe"  ----"Anatole France"

"Joyously grasp the ties that bind you, for they lead straight to the heart"---"Wm."


Kimberly...

Margo M.
on 11/6/08 2:44 am - Elyria, OH
Topic: RE: vote for me!!!!
good to see you back - thank you for all you did to helkp get our guy elected!
i'm praying for the reform--not just hoping!!

I get up every morning determined to both change the world and have one hell of a good time. Sometimes this makes planning my day difficult.
- E. B. White

 

reenieb
on 11/6/08 2:24 am
RNY on 03/08/04 with
Topic: RE: I'm back ladies, after being AWOL
Hi Judy - glad to see you back "home" - I've missed you. Boy, if there's one thing that's for certain, this surgery and losing weight sure didn't make all the problems in life go away! The bottom line is no matter our size, we get to get up and keep going every single day ... and how we manage to do that really determines to a large extent how we feel about ourselves when we close our eyes at the end of each day. I'm trying so incredibly hard to get through this day without candy. I know it sounds so stupid but I just want this day, just this one day, to be able to walk out of my office building with my head held high, knowing that I was stronger than the obsession to eat it. I want ME back. Just today. If I can achieve this today, maybe I'll get a good night's sleep tonight. Anyway, you keep on keepin' on, girlfriend. It's good to see you back. Love, your Reenie
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