Thinking Aloud
i'm here-just not much to say the past few days- some 'issues' that i am dealing with-don't care to talk about -issues with "friends" ....
you said....."...and what do we need from each other? I need your friendship and support. I need you to help me keep my weight off. I need your acceptance of me, warts and all. " sums it up for me!!!!
it does disturb me sometimes about the number of lurkers--however--i personally have clicked on this post at least 3-4 times before i am actually posting--just to see what others have replied to it as well as to read it initially--so that means that i have clicked on it causing it to be viewed that many times- increases teh numbers...so how many truly are "lurking" as opposed to how many "views" there are!!??!!so back to the lurkers- if they come away with knowledge -great!! it disturbs me tho if we are having genuine conversations, feeling safe with friends..to know that "outsiders" are watching...those outsiders may well be part of "us" the original marchers but they are not participating so they feel like outsiders to me--and therefore, i may not get as comfortable in speaking as i was once.....
what do we need to do to regain their comofrt level so they will post maybe should be the question.......
sorry-i ramble!!!!
hugs and prayers..............
you said....."...and what do we need from each other? I need your friendship and support. I need you to help me keep my weight off. I need your acceptance of me, warts and all. " sums it up for me!!!!
it does disturb me sometimes about the number of lurkers--however--i personally have clicked on this post at least 3-4 times before i am actually posting--just to see what others have replied to it as well as to read it initially--so that means that i have clicked on it causing it to be viewed that many times- increases teh numbers...so how many truly are "lurking" as opposed to how many "views" there are!!??!!so back to the lurkers- if they come away with knowledge -great!! it disturbs me tho if we are having genuine conversations, feeling safe with friends..to know that "outsiders" are watching...those outsiders may well be part of "us" the original marchers but they are not participating so they feel like outsiders to me--and therefore, i may not get as comfortable in speaking as i was once.....
what do we need to do to regain their comofrt level so they will post maybe should be the question.......
sorry-i ramble!!!!
hugs and prayers..............
I get up every morning determined to both change the world and have one hell of a good time. Sometimes this makes planning my day difficult.
- E. B. White
Hello everyone,
i swear i am getting more forgetful by the minute.
i can not remember everyones name i've always been bad at that. anyways
i'm sorry to hear that your hurt your back/neck! that kind of pain is terrible i'm speakiing from experience. your in my prayers.
i had a freindship issue last christmas that really hurt the holidays for me. i was sad and missed her but she really has some other issues that i could not deal with anymore. i was always a good friend to her during the territble times that she had but she pushed all of her friends away. i was the last one to go who had always been there for her,.
i do hear from another friend that she has gotten chummy with that she is doing ok. she is moving out of state. i think she feels she will be better away from everyone she pushed away here. its her life not mine. i have my own things to take care of. i reached out to her in the past and will not do it again. my friend's husband said to me Pammy someone has to be the first to reach out. I said I agree and I did but now the ball is in her court., Me saying something like that is a riot cause I'm not a sports person but the sentence had meaning.
wow he did a good job! i love sparklys! always have! and a big one to boot! looking forward to seeing that picture!
reenie i hope your holidays are going good. its cold for us here in connecticut nasty weather today rainey snowy icey. its my birthday and i'm home today! yhippie! i'm 56!
did yo uall know that 56 is the new 30???
i swear i am getting more forgetful by the minute.
i can not remember everyones name i've always been bad at that. anyways
i'm sorry to hear that your hurt your back/neck! that kind of pain is terrible i'm speakiing from experience. your in my prayers.
i had a freindship issue last christmas that really hurt the holidays for me. i was sad and missed her but she really has some other issues that i could not deal with anymore. i was always a good friend to her during the territble times that she had but she pushed all of her friends away. i was the last one to go who had always been there for her,.
i do hear from another friend that she has gotten chummy with that she is doing ok. she is moving out of state. i think she feels she will be better away from everyone she pushed away here. its her life not mine. i have my own things to take care of. i reached out to her in the past and will not do it again. my friend's husband said to me Pammy someone has to be the first to reach out. I said I agree and I did but now the ball is in her court., Me saying something like that is a riot cause I'm not a sports person but the sentence had meaning.
wow he did a good job! i love sparklys! always have! and a big one to boot! looking forward to seeing that picture!
reenie i hope your holidays are going good. its cold for us here in connecticut nasty weather today rainey snowy icey. its my birthday and i'm home today! yhippie! i'm 56!
did yo uall know that 56 is the new 30???
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!! and OH the new 30s great so Im guess Im 20 LOL sounds good to me! "To accomplish great things, we must not only act, but also dream, not only plan, but also believe" ----"Anatole France"
"Joyously grasp the ties that bind you, for they lead straight to the heart"---"Wm."
Kimberly...
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