Question off topic....

It was so funny after i posted the message that I realized I had posted under my secret pal account since I am involved with that. It was already sent and I couldn't change it. Like I said Opinion are like ******** everyone has one good or bad..... I think my friend is a very strong woman to decide to put it on the public forum to advise the other women that has been receiving pms and emails from this loser. She knew that exposing the jerk would bring her grief but she was a better person none the less to help out others that might be scammed by him too. Short in short she has a good heart and many out there don't! Now please remember that enough was said and you really didn't have to go to another forum to twist the story around. Because the way you presented it here was like these two women knew eachother and they both decided to mess with a married man and it was not even like that. By the way we are not here to judge..... We are here to offer support and if you don't like what you read delete it and move on. If you can't delete it because it is in a forum then close the message and move on. Have a great day!

Well in responce to your msg..I interpreted in another way I. I voiced my opinion as many others did good and bad .....as for being judge and jury here....isnt that exactly what you are doing to the male party in this case...perhaps he has underlying issues here for causing this type of disrupted behavior? Maybe you should SUPPORT him and he will be able to change his ways. Just my opinion...and PS nothing was twisted in my messages it was based off of what was typed on the forum. And your buddy PMed me I responded appariently that wasnt what she was looking for either. HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY! one more thing take your drama elseware...I dont need it Enjoy your day!

LOL you are a real work of art! As a matter of fact the one who took the drama else where was you! So apparently you needed the drama in your life too. lol Enjoy your day too!

Didn't sound like she twisted anything to me. Two women were involved with a married man only basic info was given so no one thought anything either way. Don't know why you came all the way over to defend your friend when no one was really attacking your friend to begin with. Kim only said she was sent emails after she'd nicely deleted her posts at your friends request. Aparently your friend made OUR friend feel bad or guilty when she didn't mean anything by it and needed reassurance and we're going to give it to her as we don't think she did anything wrong. Thats all. We aren't slamming your friend here. We didn't say she was a bad person either and I didn't see anyone here saying that she was. So this is all pointless really. No need to come over here with it. We don't think horrible things about your friend. Sht happens and unfortunately its ashame this jerk is doing things like this to women and good for your friend to stand up to it...and see... the man is still creating a ruckus. Elizabeth M

Little girl your the one who turned it into drama I asked a simple question was it out of line to post my opinion and seriously I wouldnt even had done that if it wsnt for your friends nasty PM to me....so....bite me ENJOY YOUR DAY!!!!

I am glad you like to call someone little girl that is an adult. I will take that as a compliment since having WLS did make look good! You think you are all tough because you can hide behind your computer screen. Sure talk all the crap you want. Why don't come to one of our get togethers and talk all the Sh*t you want??? LOL Have a productive day head bunting your computer screen since that is as far as you dare to go! ROFLMBO! Oh and you did say that if you post in public forum you are entitled to get someone's opinion on what you post right? Double edge sword huh?

Thank you Elizabeth....Im not going to defend myself aganist her....Im done...appariently the truth hurts. Soooo...how ya doing today? Got on scale lost 7lbs YAAAAHAAA

YOUR ARE A JOKE LOOSER>>>AND NOT MEANT IN THE WLS WAY!!! And anytime youde like to meet me one on one for lunch, Im game..we can discuss things...on a personal level. No fear here. HAVE A GOOD DAY!!!

As another friend of the original poster: I have to agree with Cira: She is without a doubt a very sweet caring woman who ALMOST fell into an affair with a married man : But she didn't - and she has been given so much flack about her post . It was done to warn and protect other women on the board from suffering as the two of them did. And I do feel terribly sorry for his wife. The true villian here is not the original poster - its the man who preyed on the 2 women involved. I support my friend wholeheartedly and will frankly defend her with my last breath if I have too. I also agree with Cira tht there was no reason at all to drag this too another forum. Thats my $.02 worth Darla