Heres another one!

I'm dating a great guy. YIPPIE THANK YOU GOD FOR LISTENIGN TO MY PRAYERS!!!!! He might be a keeper!!!!!! Short version of a long story... We worked together at my old company. A month after I left we were at a benefit party for another old co-worker and we danced all night. We started dating. He's had a crush on me for over 3 years that I didnt' know a thing about! He would listen to my stories of who I was dating the break ups and how hard it was to find someone specail. I always was attracted to him but never dreamed he'd be interested in me. We were friends! AT one point he said to me Pam what your looking you might not see cause its looking you right in the face. But how he said it I never dreamed he ment him! Now we are getting to know each other as boyfriend/girlfriend the best part is we already know so much about each other that we've already got out friendship when thats the thing that you usually are working on when you first meet someone! The only down side is we go out to eat way too much. But I'm the one that needs to learn how to do that successfully. In the past I just didn't go out to eat. Thats not goign towork with this relationship! So thats my life for the past 6 months. I'm happy

Good for You!! Love for sure helps everything!! Ladybug Marilyn

Enjoy, sweetheart!

Good !!!!!!!!!! Happy to see you are doing so good. Take care .

Oh wow Pam! That is so wonderful for you! I have been gone so long all I remember is the relationship you were having a hard time ending but needed to. I'm so happy for you that you found each other!

Happy Anniversary. On this eating out....My hubby and I have been out of town at a conference. We did a lot of meal sharing. Remember when you could do that when you first were loosing weight? (Or at least I did). Maybe that is an idea. Today we were at Chili's.. We 1/2'd a slab of ribs and the mashed potatoes and steamed broccoli. (I gave him more ribs than I kept) but it still works. Mayne that is the way to go.........

The food sharing is soemthing to concider... Dinika! I remember you!!! Yes that past relationship of mine was so difficult to end. Do you know its been over 2 years now since that ended? Its taken me so long to let soemone get close too. I still feel guilty for dating! I'd not seen the guy I was engaged to for most of that time since the breakup. Now I'm bumping into him almost weekly. I do feel sadness for what could have been but I know it was the right thing to do so when I feel the guilt I remind myself. AND I tell myself I am not a bad person for the breakup. I did a better thing to him by breaking up with him than marrying him and then having the breakup. I guess life is always a learning thing huh? Geesh I'm 55 when does the learning stop???