Me a weight Mentor????
You guys are gonna love this!
I have a good friend Nancy who we've not gotten together with in a few years. You know how it is with work, family and all that stuff. She lives in another town so distance doesn't help too.
Wellllll we've been getting together for dinner now and then and the last time we ate out she asked me for help in keeping control of her weight.
ME!!!!! She asked me!
Nancy was always thinner than me. And in my mental state she still is now and always will be. I always think I'm so much bigger than I am. I will always be a fat person in mind.
But now she's just alittle bit bigger than me. Not much she's shorter and shaped different. Its not a big deal. To me. But to her it is.
All those years ago the two of us always would worry about weight. We talked about diets food everything all the time. Sizes too. Once she had lost weight and was wearing a size 12. I drooled cause my 26 was tight. She kept saying that someday she'd wear a 10 and I think she did for a bit that I remember. For me it was a dream that I never thought would be.
Now the roles have changed. I'm weight that size 10 and she is wearing a 14. She looks fantastic! Always had a shape that men turned their heads for and even though she is in her late 50's she looks fantastic! Wonderful skin not a wrinkle. She also has a great personality. Her husband just thinks she is the most wonderful thing in the world. But she wants to be that 10.
I wonder if its from that old movie with Bo derek? It was a size I always dreamed about now I look at the ones in 6's and think god I want that! would it be that if i made it to a 6 i'd be thinking look at those women in 2's? no i dont think so.
Anyways I was stunned that anyone especailly Nancy would ask me for advise about weight control.
stunned.