2 years couldn't be more different...

You know, it's so funny because time gets away from us, doesn't it? It seems almost impossible that 2 years has gone by but yet at the same time, here I am finding it hard to remember those early days pre-surgery. It's like I'm trying to remember someone else's life. Do you ever feel that way? I feel like I am a different person most of the time, and it sometimes shocks me to see old pictures of myself. And I cannot remember what it feels like to be 325 lbs. I don't know if that is good or bad. But the thing is, I remember some things about those early days and I remember you being there, but it's funny because I remember you being there for everyone more than me being there for you. Amazing how we see things in retrospect. I won't ever permanently leave the board. I may have times away, but I could never leave you all. I need to hear what is going on in your lives as much as share what is going on in mine. So don't worry about hijacking Connies pups....I'm not going anywhere! Dina

Geez, this is a great post in many ways, yet I saddened by the news that your message about your marriage. I'm sure in this case it is probably the right thing. However, my biggest concern is how I'm going to manage yet another woman in my life. I mean, I have my wife, all the WLS groupies, and now I'll have some business to take care of in Oregon. ( I knew you could appreciate that, blue humor) Congrats on your journey, and please come around any time you can. We love having you here.

Well Ken, I guess you'll just have to take up juggling then, huh? Shame for shame....shouldn't be teasing a not-yet-divorced woman!!! Dina

Well, I'm certainly man enough for the task, so that isn't the issue. I just thought that I ought get my bid in because somebody as cute as you with your personality will have pleanty of options. Not that I wish to see any marriage end in divorce, or encourage it, I think I can speak for us all when we say we just want you to be happy. But you hit on a point that is difficult for others to understand. We have changed more then in our weight. And in order to stay happy, healthy and fit we have to change our minds. I'm not pretending to know your issues, but we all had holes in our lives that we filled with garbage of some kind. You have a tool that has allowed you to control part of your life, and the rest has to follow. And on a lighter note, you have seen part of the goods, so you know what I bring to the table. LOL

Happy belated Anniversary to you! You have some a long way, sista! I share everyone else's condolences in regard to your marriage. I know how painful it is, even though you know it is what is best for you, your husband and your child. No matter how amicable this process is, it still hurts. You always have a place to come to when you need several shoulders to lean....or cry on. I lurk more than post these days - for several reasons (mostly having to do with my disappointment in myself regarding my weight loss - or lack thereof!). But I do pop in almost daily and ALWAYS read each and every one of your posts. You have always been so insightful. I think you have a special gift. Have you ever thought about being a writer? It seems as if your thoughts just flow. Hang in there. The light is at the end of the tunnel for both of us. Love to you! Hugs, -Wendy