A Thought to Share With You

reenieb
on 11/3/05 10:13 am
RNY on 03/08/04 with
I realized today that I'm experiencing a sort of phenonema that I've never been through before and maybe this realization will lead me to a better place of my continued weight and body image struggles. I realized that, when I stray from my regimented eating plan, I gain weight, sometimes 3-4 lbs. in a day. Nothing new here, right? But, when I stick to my regimented eating plan, I maintain my weight -- I don't lose...now think about this. Back when we were morbidly obese, we could lose 5 lbs. in 5 minutes -- and it didn't even make a dent. Now that we are "normal" sized people, we are singing the "normal" sized anthem -- 'I can't get off these last 5 or 10 lbs.!' Or, 'No matter what I do, those last few lbs. won't budge!' How this realizations changed my perspective is this: I KNOW now that when I make poor eating choices...junk food, donutes, cupcakes, I've had them all lately...I WILL gain weight. Period. But when I make good, solid, heathful eating choices, I WILL maintain the weight loss success I've enjoyed thus far. I may not lose, but I will not gain. This is something I can wrestle with, wrap my brain around, DEAL with. It's a different place for me, a foreign concept. And I'm always good to go with a challenge...have a good night, all, I'm beat. God bless. Maureen
Joan Stonehill
on 11/3/05 8:59 pm - TN
These things don't always sink in so fast for me. I was very strict when I was working and things have softened up since I'm not, and I have gained a few pounds. Now that I've taken the bull by the horns, so to speak and joined the gym, I'm back to eating what I used to eat when I worked: cottage cheese and low carb yogurt for lunch every day, my protein bars, oatmeal...all the good stuff. The personal trainer said I may not lose any more weight, but he said the fat turns to muscle, and with working out steadily, I will go down to the size I want to be. All of my measurements and weight were within normal range (I still think that's a miracle), but I have a lot of tightening up to do. I'm so motivated now! Be healthy, happy, and enjoy yourself!!! Joanie
MikeyLikesIt
on 11/4/05 4:30 am - Guilford, CT
Yup......welcome to the wonderful world of the "Normal Folks"! This is all of the stuff that I never understood when I was M.O.!! This may be crude, but honestly, in the bad old days, I could lose 5 lbs. with a good bowel movement!!! Now I find that I have the same complaint as everyone else: It's really tough to get that 5 lbs. off! Of course, the good news here is that 5 lbs. really makes a difference these days!! CHEERS!! Mike
lemarie22
on 11/6/05 2:16 am - Glendale, AZ
Isn't it funny that when I was 286 pounds, losing 10 pounds wouldn't have been worth the effort. When I had over 140 pounds to lose, 10 pounds wouldn't have made a dent in my mass. 10 pounds wasn't going to matter one way or another. Now 10 pounds seems like a hurculean effort. The rewards of losing ten pounds are much more visible these days. That's a whole size for me. Ten pounds now is the equivelent of 40 or 50 when I was MO. C.
pammy157
on 11/8/05 6:45 am - colchester, CT
RNY on 03/30/04 with
i feel so lucky to be normal and complain about 5 pounds instead of that 120 pounds... good luck and god bless you all!
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