Thanks for the Ride

When I was 37 years old, I thought, "43 is going to be my year." I don't know what put that thought in my head and I didn't know what was going to happen, but I knew it was going to be big. It became like a mantra, "43 is my year, 43 is my year." When that thought entered my head, gastric bypass surgery was the furthest thing from my mind. I didn't know if I was going to get a great job, find the man of my dreams or win the lottery, but it was going to be good. Little did I know that what I was going to get was my life back. By the time my 43rd year rolled around, I was almost a recluse. I went to work and right back home. I declined all invitations, ventured out the door only when I absolutely had to and for the first time in my life was depressed. Friends and family were getting really worried about me. My health was in the crapper and I wasn't sure I was going to be here in another 5 years. My fight for insurance approval was hellacious. It took a year, six doctors, a lawyer and the Arizona insurance commission to wrestle an approval out of the weasels after three denials. I'd given up all hope when THE LETTER arrived. This was the one and only time I've ever cried from sheer happiness. In my 43rd year, I found you guys. Exactly one year ago today (to the hour), I was packing for my trip to the hospital. Tonight I'm packing for my trip to Alaska to celebrate. Last year I wouldn't have gotten on a plane, this year I'm getting on a plane, a snow machine and a dog sled. Thanks so much for taking this journey with me and especially for allowing me to come along on yours. This board has been my rock, my sanity check and my place to rant and ramble. I carry you all in my heart and know that I have sisters and brothers in spirit. Love, Connie

Forget about Alaska, come to Connecticut! The snow is still flying, the wind chill is way-sub-zero, and I'll put you up for nuthin!!! Hey, Connie, the day you found us was the day we found you...what a gift you have been. Love to you and many super-sized hugs, Reenie

Have a great time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We are so glad you found us and us you.

Have a WONDERFUL time on your vacation....and thanks for being an inspiration to us. I think we're all lucky we found each other. I wish I were 43! teehee! Be well, have fun and we're looking forward to hearing about your Alaska adventures upon your return! Stay safe! Joan

Ah Connie.....HAPPY ANIVERSARY!!! This trip has been made so much more enjoyable with you along for the ride!!! I'm really impressed (and green with envy) that you are off on such a great adventure! I can hardly wait for your return so that we can hear about your trip as only you can tell it! Your unique way of looking at life in general and post-op life in particular has been a wonderful addition to our little community! I hope that your trip is one that you'll remember fondly for the rest of your life and wish you continued success, health and happiness in post-op year 2!! I look forward to reading your posts for a long time to come! Big Hugs coming at Ya.... Mike

Connie, Such an exciting life! The extremes we live through make us appreciate life all the more! Have a super fun trip! CP