No longer three bills, and now I lost over two bills

redzz04
on 10/12/04 4:50 am
I often wonder whats heartfelt and whats not dont you? I hate the question "how much have you lost?" Some people just blurt it right out and show their insensitivity and ignorance. I mean thats private stuff! and you would never have asked before surgery "HEY how much do you weigh?" you know... Some are more gracious and say "Do you mind me asking how much you have lost" and seem more sincere about it. But others... I dont know if its just lack of couth or what but man... they are just a$$e$. They just ask some really personal stuff without even thinking about it. Like "so what size do you wear now?" and "what size were you before?" Heck I mean your asking a woman what size they wear and your a woman and KNOW thats a taboo question!!! Its just almost like they are saying MAN you were HUGE before now you are just not as huge! And unfortunately I think its insecurity on their part to make themselves seem better in some way. I dont know. You just have to sort of weed through those people and give them those "alot of weight" answers without feeding their insensitivities. Congrats on your weight loss so far! I wish you continued success! Elizabeth M
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