UPDATE

Well it has been a long time since my last posting. New year ,new life. Just finished with my boyfriend for 4 years almost. It was a long way with my feelings it's not easy but, here I am. Looking with to do now . At least I just lost 6 pounds .I gained few pounds thru the holidays. Now I'm im 188 . I'm hoping could go down to 175 in a few weeks. Take care , love you all.

Glad to see your update Yvette. It is hard to readjust after a long relationship, but, you will get through it!! Take care & congratulation on losing the 6 pounds. See getting rid of the boyfriend was a good thing!! Marilyn, the Bearlady

I understand...i broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years 9 months ago. it was hard but needed to be done. now while i still think of him i am happy with my life. but i didn't lose any weight!!! congrats with your changes.