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Are you pre-op? If you're pre-op, you REALLY REALLY don't want to go there and put yourself thru unnecessary emotional drama. If you really want to go there, set yourself a date for, oh, two months after you have your surgery. Then you'll be grateful for your success and won't have put yourself through unnecessary worry.
JMHO.
Kimmer
Queen of the Niners, Instigator to All Marchers, High Priestess of Giggles
Hi SS;
I read the memorials list prior to surgery. Before you read it, you have to keep in mind how and why those folks passed on. You have to be able to look beyond their commonality of being WLS patients. They had something far greater in common - poor health.
Are you reading it for information or to get a well-rounded picture or to scare yourself?
Cheryl

very sweet and considerate of u to suggest that.. i am pre op but i do feel that i need to consider the dark side of this as well... at a point i am with my weight.. i feel as good as being dead anyways.. . so nothing is gonna really make me change my mind.. please if u can tell me how to get there...