GOOD GRAVEY - STOP IT!!!!

Get over it - just stop the fighting. I am sure we are all on edge just a little bit more than normal with impending surgeries. We had a good thing going and now we have flame wars. Sally: You did a completely inappropriate thing airing your dirty laundry here. Your issue should have been kept between you and Nicole. You put her in the position of having to defend herself. If you weren't savvy enough to know that many people would flock to your profile to see who your angel was, or check back posts, you aren't as smart as I thought you were. Regardless, you threw her into a position of having her feelings aired in public, and that is wrong. We ALL have things that would cause great debates on these boards. We all have some beliefs that would light a fire under any one particular group of people. We could fight all day long about it. But it is inexcusable to air these beliefs and feelings on a public message board for someone else. If I wrote a private email explaining my position on politics, abortion, gay marriage and religion and someone got angry with my position and decided to air it here, what good would come of it? It would garner that person a few allies, but more than likely it would polarize the whole stinkin' board into several fighting factions. I am angry. I am angry that this crap is coming up at all...and especially as some of our members are out having surgery and recuperating, and especially while some of us are preparing to go in themselves. It's a stinking support board. If you don't have anything supportive to say, then don't say it. Make better use of your time. Dina

Hey, Dina! Guess it takes longer to get info to the Oregon woods on the left coast. Everybody has kissed and made -up. We all suffer as one and emotionally this is our month so as you say we better think twice and be supportive because we all need each other during this difficult passage. Love, Jewell

Okay, as far as I can tell everbody has moved on. So why are you bringing this up again? Let's please not start this whole debate all over again. Everyone has calmed down and dropped it and we have moved back to the important things. I don't want to be rude, but now you are the one bringing it back up. Sorry, but that's the way I see it. Carrie Carrie Quite Contrary (a/k/a CCQC) 5 Days and a Wake Up to a New Life! March Elevener and PROUD to be a Marcher in Newpouch, USA Offishal Assistant Paper Monkey and Secretary Extaordinaire AND Offishal Keeper of the Marcher Title Duty Roster My Angel ==> Amber W. My Angelettes ==> Joann B. , LaDonna D. , Marcie F.

Yes--my thoughts exactly. I thought it was over and I was welcome again and now you are chatising me publically! I did nothing but have a knee-jerk reaction to a blow to my ego and self esteem and send a quick post of good-by. This is almost worse than the original.

Sally, You are welcome here! This should never have been brought up again. Carrie Carrie Quite Contrary (a/k/a CCQC) 5 Days and a Wake Up to a New Life! March Elevener and PROUD to be a Marcher in Newpouch, USA Offishal Assistant Paper Monkey and Secretary Extaordinaire AND Offishal Keeper of the Marcher Title Duty Roster My Angel ==> Amber W. My Angelettes ==> Joann B. , LaDonna D. , Marcie F.

Hi Dina, I'm sorry but I have to say , I think you were so out of line to say what you did, telling her she was innapropriate! were all adults here noone should have to be ridiculed,(!!!!!!!!!!!

Um - okay. I didn't see any kissing and making up in any of the posts, but I'll drop it from here. However, telling someone *what they did* was inappropriate was not ridiculing. It was chastising. And I stand by that. Dina --who will not respond to this thread anymore. Best to let it die.

Hi The rest of my post dissapeared, maybe God wanted it to happen that way..lol...anyway, lets all just try to give oneanother support!!!! this is a very "sensitive time" in our lives, don 't make anyone feel bad, lets all laugh and keep eachother psyched up about our long awaited new lives,healthier bodies and recovery! take alook around, alot of people air their laundry here weather it is dirty or not!!! we talk about everything here our moms, our husbands, our family, our children, our friends and so on... Myself included! Where is the board rules anyway???? and where are the angel rules???? see what im saying here... No one has a right to say what can and cant be said, if noone likes a particular post, use the mouse and SKIP over it! I just want everyone to know I read everything everynight and I love to hear all your stories keep them comming Marchers!!! God bless all the Marchers, and I say that cause I CAN! hugz Mary

Dina, The problem that I had with this post was that it was done SEVERAL HOURS after the last one that had anything to do with this issue. IT HAD ALREADY BEEN DROPPED. All your post did was to bring it back into the limelight again and I don't feel that it was necessary. Just my opinion on the matter. Carrie Carrie Quite Contrary (a/k/a CCQC) 5 Days and a Wake Up to a New Life! March Elevener and PROUD to be a Marcher in Newpouch, USA Offishal Assistant Paper Monkey and Secretary Extaordinaire AND Offishal Keeper of the Marcher Title Duty Roster My Angel ==> Amber W. My Angelettes ==> Joann B. , LaDonna D. , Marcie F.

Carrie - my last response to you was via email. I prefer to keep it off the boards right now. Thanks.