Any Ideas?

I need some pick me up help here! I am going to my husband's best friend's wedding on Friday, and he is very smooth and what I would call part of the "beautiful People" world. Now, I like myself to know that I am being foolish, but humor me! I am at my heaviest EVER, and having surgery 2 weeks from today, so I know I will be FABULOUS after surgery, but I am really self-concious about how I look. My husband has not seen these people in 3 or more years, and I don't want them to think he married a "fat chick". I feel HUGE next to some of his old friend's girlfriends. I know it should not matter, but I need some mantras to chant in my head as I wonder how some of these little women don't blow away if someone sneezes! Any ideas? THANKS! Cathy 13 days til I rock my world!

Hi Cathy, Picture yourself the way you will be after surgery. And don't project what you think they are thinking about you!!! You would be surprised they probably aren't even thinking about you at all. You are a bright attractive woman, go forth and conquer !!!! Hugs, Mo doin' the 25 days and a wakeup happy Mo dance

I sure do relate Cathy!! I am heavier than any of my friends, my hubbies friends, and anyone in my family. Pamper yourself and fix yourself up real purty!!! Remember your husband loves you. I looked at your pic and you are beautiful!!! Beauty shines from within. Whitney

Hi, Kathy! As one old Texas gal to another may I suggest that if anybody acts dismissive of you remember: You are going to lose your weight, but they are going to be nasty forever. Love, Jewell