How do I access the Memorial area?

Hi I am having an upcoming surgery, and I have been told by several people to go to the memorial site, how do I get there? Thank you Tori

This is NOT the time to do that! If you didn't do it 2 months ago, wait until after surgery. PLEASE! Joy (3/1)

Tori, I second what Joy wrote! Please wait. Betty

BEEN THERE AND DONE THAT.... People have this surgery and some die.. fact... we know this.. Please don't go looking there and getting all depressed... I truly regretted it.. I don't know who told you to go lookin but the right advice is.... DON'T WORRY BE HAPPY... A positive outlook is imperative right now.... Just my opinion

Hey Kathy, Good advice, was there about 5 months ago, now is not the time to jump into that area. Toooooooo depressing. Oh and Kathy, I've been to your profile and would like to deliver a few choice words to CORI...although they'd turn a deaf ear. But I have to say that there is a reason your having such a hard time getting this surgery down. God has most assuredly closed that door for now. Don't give up though, heal your broken heart, then please, please try again. Happy thoughts, Va 11 sunrises until my new life begins single digits are just around the corner Offishal Paper Monkey and Secretary Extraordinaire Offishal Squirrel Wrangler (willing to share this title)

Tori, Step away from that page!!!!!!!!!!! Do NOT, i repeat, DO NOT, go to that site!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Save that for after (much after) surgery if you must go there at all. Whitney

Tori -- Just curious, but WHO told you to go to the Memorial Site and WHY did they tell you to go there? What was their reasoning for sending you there? Simply out of great concern for you, we're all advising you not to go there 'til after surgery if you feel you must go there. It's NOT an uplifting place to go, and right now, before surgery, you need to concentrate on positive, good things about WLS. You need to put yourself into the best frame of mind that you can. Going to the Memorial Site is NOT going to do that for you. We're here to help each other thru this, and we've already learned a LOT from each other. NOT going to the Memorial Site at this time is one of the BIGGIES we've learned. It'll be there afterward, ya know? Just trying to make sure you're looking forward... Kimmer Queen of the Niners, Instigator to All Marchers, High Priestess of Giggles Zero-minus-17 and counting!