9.25 in and sex (oops, fell back in the gutter)
KathyP and Kasmeire both got me thinking, we're looking good, feeeling good, and perhaps feeling more desireable? . Sooooo,
- Has your sex drive changed?
- Does your honey find you sexier?
- Do you feel more deserving, wanting more, wanting better, wanting different than before?
- Are you searching for the fella with the inches you're looking for. (ok that was beneath the gutter, I'm in the sewer now)
- Are you getting more attention from men be they strangers or fella's you know?
- How about you men out there, whats changed?
I definately get more attention from men. Unfortunately, its mostly the same type of pre wls weirdos ,just more of them. I got whistled at this weekend (didn't know anyone under 60 still did that). Today a strange man held an unbrella over me and walked me to my appartment building cause I was getting wet. He was actually headed in the opposit direction.
Perhaps if I'd meet a man who was a little less weird I could answer my own questions.
MSW Roux-En-Y Gastric Bypass: Eat sensibly & enjoy moderation
Links: Are you a compulsive eater? for help OA meets on-line Keep Coming Back, One Day At a Time Overeaters Anonymous
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V'N MY RNY. WORKING FOR ME BECAUSE I WORK FOR IT.
LMAO! I love to talk about sex. I started my therapy career as a "couples therapist", so naturally, sex was a biggie! (Pardon the pun).
To answer the questions:
1) my sex drive hasn't changed.
2) I have always had a very strong one. At GH Orientation, when the speaker said our sex drives would increase, my poor DH about fainted.
My DH finds me sexier, actually I blogged about it...he said I'm easier to "man handle".
3) I never felt like I was "settling" in my sex life. At my heaviest weight, I still felt and was perceived as a sensual woman...Wanting more? See #2. Wanting different? Well, I've always been creative...so not a problem.
4) sewer...hmm....lol. Really "inches" aren't a biggie to me (omg...whatever!) What is, and has been, important to me is to have a partner who is playful, adventuresome, and willing to try new things/toy/etc. Sex should be fun....and intimacy is often confused with sex....but when you have both... it's the best (imo)
5) I was taken aback last week at grocery store, when a simple conversation around chili turned into a man asking me over for breakfast. I smiled, said thanks, but didn't think my DH would appreciate it. Thanked him again, and smiled all the way to the office.
6) This is what I'VE HEARD ABOUT MEN WITH RNY: men will find that as they lose weight, the appearance and "feel" of their penis (can I type penis here?) is larger/longer. The male pannis plays a part here.
I think that as we as women, present ourselves as confident, knowing we are sexy and sensual creatures, it cannot help but ooze out into our everyday lives. You may go through a few weirdo's to get to a decent one. Consider them "dry runs".
Oh, and nice that a guy shielded you from the rain. He was obviously trying to be chivalrous. Nice.
Congrats on the inches and poundage loss!!!
It knows it must outrun the fastest lion or it will be killed.
Every morning in
It knows that it must run faster than the slowest gazelle, or it will starve.
It doesn't matter whether you're a lion or a gazelle
when the sun comes up you'd better be running.
RNY 2/9/09 Buh bye Gallbladder 8/28/09; 100% EWL (181 lbs.) on 2/19/10;
As for men and RNY, thats news to me. I never thought about the pannis running interference with the penis. LMAO, poor fellas, literally **** blocked by their own panni, LMAO.
OK, I may have crossed the censors that time...
MSW Roux-En-Y Gastric Bypass: Eat sensibly & enjoy moderation
Links: Are you a compulsive eater? for help OA meets on-line Keep Coming Back, One Day At a Time Overeaters Anonymous
LV'N MY RNY. WORKING FOR ME BECAUSE I WORK FOR IT.
- Has your sex drive changed? Nope, it's always been high and still is.
- Does your honey find you sexier? Yes because I'm a lot more confident.
- Do you feel more deserving, wanting more, wanting better, wanting different than before? I want the same things I always did but now I'm able to try it in a lot more positions...LOL
- Are you searching for the fella with the inches you're looking for. (ok that was beneath the gutter, I'm in the sewer now) Hmmmm.....
- Are you getting more attention from men be they strangers or fella's you know? I'm getting more attention from both and I'm liking it!
MSW Roux-En-Y Gastric Bypass: Eat sensibly & enjoy moderation
Links: Are you a compulsive eater? for help OA meets on-line Keep Coming Back, One Day At a Time Overeaters Anonymous
LV'N MY RNY. WORKING FOR ME BECAUSE I WORK FOR IT.
- Does your honey find you sexier? Only because I'm more confidant
- Do you feel more deserving, wanting more, wanting better, wanting different than before? Not really..I've always felt deserving and wanted lots lol
- Are you searching for the fella with the inches you're looking for. (ok that was beneath the gutter, I'm in the sewer now) I have no issues with my hubby ;)
- Are you getting more attention from men be they strangers or fella's you know? I've definitely noticed men treating me better (holding doors open etc)
