i NEED TO VENT PLEASE DISREGAURD

I hate men and I hate the fact that just because i am emotional i am crazy and weird i am allowed to be emotional i am a woman right? Im allowed to be weird when one min you tell me you want me and the next you say you dont and when you have sex with me then avoid me and then act like we are just frined I HAVE THE FLIPPIN RIGHT TO BE WEIRD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.... ok sorry i needed ot get that off my chest and i cant blog that on myspace cause NOW apperently my blogs are topic of conversation....sigh Sorry ladies J things were easier when i was fat lol noone wanted to be with me so i didnt have to deal with this crap.

Julie, Please don't apologize, that is why we are here. To help each other through each stage of this journey. Not just through surgery. We all need our moment to vent and to get things off our chest with ppl we trust. I'm sorry you were hurt. You are a beautiful woman and should be treated as such. Take care, Lara

GIRL, GO AHEAD AND GET IT OUT!!! The best thing you can do in this situation, and trust me I know from experience, is to IGNORE him. You have to do that. See people like that think they need to be chased around because they think they are something special but if you act as if you don't need him, want him, or even like him, he will start to wonder what is going on and he will change and if he doesn't atleast you will have learned to live without his simple behind. But you absolutely, positively, can not sleep with him anymore!!! because right now he does not respect you and trust me he knows how he is treating you and he is saying to himself that you are such a pushover. Why should he treat you with respect when you are not respecting yourself by letting him treat you this way. Starting making those changes and he will definitely change with you! much love girl, your WLS sista, Lana Feb 14, 2006 RNY 277/212/150?

Don't hate the player...Hate the game. LMAO I had to say that. Hope everything gets better for you Julie!! I totally agree with this statement "" things were easier when i was fat lol noone wanted to be with me so i didnt have to deal with this crap""

Men .... can't live with them .... can't legally shoot them. What's a girl to do? (sigh)

Awww babe... you know you can always write to me on myspace if you want. I agree that I am totally emotional right now, I started crying when my son got a hair cut because he was crying... my friend is going to be moving (one day, and probably not even in the next year and I started crying because I am gonna miss her) we are all probably a LOT more emotional than we used to be. We're not eating instead of feeling our emotions. So goodness knows a LIFETIME of feelings we've been holding back could be coming out. And you're not weird, you're beautiful, you're in onederland, you're perfect just the way you are. And men are really hard to deal with sometimes, I love my fiance, but even he tests me sometimes! Feel free to VENT, we all need a place and opportunity to do it!