wow emotions I wasnt expecting

I finally meet someone that had RNY also. She was at the restaurant in town. and a friend of mine interduced us. I thought I was doing okay with this I still dont know if I understand the emotions I am going through. I talked to her for about an hour. And came home and all I can do is cry. To find someone I can actually see and talk to is just such a shock to me. Someone that understands what I am going through. I mean I love you all and you are a big support for me but to have someone to talk to in person. I cant stop crying Why am I crying so much about it.

Wow that's great Marie that you got to talk to someone who's been through what you have in person. It probably is a lot different than "talking" here on the board. I have yet to find a group of ladies that I can talk to in person out here. Even though I have my hubby now, and my FIL who've been through the surgery it's not the same. Guys go through totally different things. As far as the crying...maybe you are crying out of happiness. You are happy that you found someone like you & you can relate to and vice versa. Keep in touch with that lady, you two are probably going to develop a great friendship. Elisa

Rie-you are going thru a lot of stress right now-the wedding-the recent surgery-it is a good thing that you can cry-very healthy-and normal! Take care!