opinions please

I need some advice/opinions about my sister. My sister is having some issues about my weight loss and the attention it's bringing me. I told you guys about my wow moment with my family on sunday, well my sister announced her engagement that day and people made a bigger deal about me than they did about that. i don't know if it's because it's her second marriage, because they were shocked (they've only known each other for 6 months), or something else. they were all just meeting him for the first time on sunday. so she left early because no one was making a fuss over her. then i told her my mom wants to start shopping for clothes for us for christmas and my sister's birthday presents. she refuses to buy clothes because she still has to shop at "the fat girl store" and i don't have to anymore. i told her that it didn't matter and she needs clothes. it makes me feel bad that she feels like this but i don't know what to do or to say to her. i told her she was stupid for being so petty but i think that just made matters worse. i try to get her to workout with me and i've offered to let her borrow my videos and stuff. she always has an excuse about why she can't workout. she's actually put on at least 10 pounds since she's been with her new man. i don't know what to say or do....any advice??

You know, Stephanie....you can dip some folks in chocolate and roll them in nuts they'd still be unhappy! I think you're sister is probably jealous. Look at how wonderful you look! And you are healthy! And you are getting attention! I don't know if there is anything you could say or do thay would change her feelings. She could seek out WLS for herself if she wanted to, and I bet you would be a great support for her. But she has to make her own choice, just like we all did. The fact that you are upset by all this shows what a good sister you are. Hugs, Susan 298/179/150-160