Some Advice needed
Luly,
I can't speak for everyone, but I'm exactly two weeks post op and the pain was about the same as doing too many sit ups. I had RNY lap. It was certainly bearable and I was off pain meds the 3rd full day. Having a baby is much much scarier and you've been through that twice!!! You will do just fine, but remember a little fear is a good thing. Pat