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danluvsme
on 1/24/05 7:46 am - Exeter, RI
Topic: ADDING TO THE LIST
Ok, I know all I seem to do is ***** moan, complain, and whine. And I do. But with good reason. let us add to the list of ailments I have on my profile. last week it was diabetes in my eyes. NOW, I am being tested for hypothyroidism. My numbers are up so this could be a cause of a lot of things I have. The list of symptoms are: course and thinning hair dry skin slow body movements cold skin can't stand the cold tired, sluggish, or weak memory problems depression difficulty concentrating brittle nails constipation heavy or irregular menstrual cycle muscle pain joint pain Of these I can say that the thinning hair, constipation, cold skin can be chucked up to wls. I am a chronic sufferer of depression so I am ruling that out. But I do have muscle pain, joint pain, brittle nails, difficulty concentrating, memory problems, dry skin, and pre-wls I had thin hair. My old PCP diagnosed me with fibromyalgia. She said she ruled out everything. BUT my thyroid tests then concerned her. My new PCP is running tests that I have to take Wednesday and she too is concerned about my reading. So I may have this on top of everything else. If I do, this can explain my slow to no weight loss. This stops you from losing. Also they have attributed eye problems to this. But I think this is entirely different. I am not upset about this, I am almost releived. I may finally have an answer to my body pain, slow weight loss, no concentration, dry skin. The worst of all these is when you KNOW you have something but no one can tell you what it is. I thought for a while I had chronic fatigue syndrome. Please pray that I finally get an answer. Joanne
Paula A.
on 1/24/05 7:27 am - San Joaquin Valley, CA
Topic: RE: I FEEL LIKE A FAILURE
Hi Joanne, You may feel like giving up but dig your heels in and fight. You are a strong woman. You are a fighter not someone who runs away from adversity. Look at all you have been through this past year. One thing upon another. Please continue to fight the biggest fight of your life, the fight to be free of the weight that has been holding you back too long. I have lost 92 pounds since surgery plus another 80 during the 2 years prior. Many, many people have lost more than I in 11 months. I still haven't been given the ok to even walk as exercise by my pain doc. My weight loss journey hasn't been perfect. That's my reality. We have to be able to work within our guidelines to dig in and do the best we can with what we have. That's been a hard lesson for a perfectionist like myself to learn. I am sorry about the retinopathy. Added to all the other things that have happened last year it probably seems like the last straw. But Joanne, you are not a failure. It doesn't matter if it takes us 9 or 19 or more months to lose our weight really. I needed to remember that too today. Let's dig in our heels and make a new commitment to ridding ourselves of this burden. Take care. Paula
DeniseS
on 1/23/05 10:23 am - Harrisburg, PA
Topic: RE: Weekly weigh in
Congrats on your success. I havent' been keeping my measurements, not sure where I started. I'm at about a 140 pound loss so far. I just wi**** wasn't so damn cold here today. I'm freezing. Denise
DEBBIE H.
on 1/23/05 9:46 am - Lakewood, CO
Topic: RE: I FEEL LIKE A FAILURE
You have not gone through this for nothing. I have diabets too and you have to keep on fighting it don't let it win. I too have only lost 80 lbs. but I keep on tring every day. Just remenber that we are better off now then before you had surgery. HANG IN THERE KEEP ON!
SheR
on 1/23/05 7:22 am - Fl
Topic: looking for someone that use to be on here all the time
Hey everyone, I was wondering if you all will remember someone for me. On this message board their was a lady short dark hair, I can't remember her name. She was sooooo imforative. On her profile she has appeal letters all kinds of stuff. Please tell me one of you know who I am talking about. Thanks, Sheila
lessfat
on 1/23/05 4:02 am - Independence, KY
Topic: Looking for a date.
Feeling good again and ready to start dating. Any male posting that would like to chat, please drop me a line. I am almost a year out and have lost 89 lbs so far. I have alot more confidence than before and want to go have fun. Wanting to start an activity group to get people out exercising and socializing. Let me know if interested.
Milissa
on 1/23/05 2:39 am - Woodbridge, VA
Topic: RE: Help....What am I doing wrong?!
I just wanted to say thank you to all that replied to my post. I'm so greatful that there are such positive people out there. To those of us that thought somewhere way back in there minds that this was going to be (excuse the expression) a piece of cake.... well, it's truely up to us! After posting and then receiving all the wonderful replies, I took a long hard look at myself and the last couple of months... Granted, I did a lot and had a pretty good outcome, but I know I could have done better. I started grazing/snacking and although I never gained any weight, it stopped me from reaching my goal! I had this surgery because I wanted a "second chance" at life without disease, being able to have children, and to actually stay alive! I've lost 85lbs so far and have roughly 50lbs to go... I'm going to do this one way or another! I want to and I have to!!! We can all do this and non of us are failures.... Just keep doing it!!! I know we all can! My Prayers are with you all! Milissa
Delainya
on 1/22/05 9:56 pm - New Bern, NC
Topic: Weekly weigh in
Okay, It's Sunday time for our weekly weigh in. I have lost 5 more pounds this week. My measurements are 36/30/41. I am down a total of 70+ inches and 155 pounds. I hope everyone else is doing well. If so--Congrat's. If not then just be positive today starts a new week and a new start.. Good Day to all and Happy Loosing!!! Delainya 321/166/150
DeniseS
on 1/22/05 8:36 pm - Harrisburg, PA
Topic: RE: I FEEL LIKE A FAILURE
Joanne, I was a bit harsh, I apologize. I do not suffer from depression and I do know enough that "snapping out of it" is not a possibility. This time of the year is awful for so many reasons. It is so damn cold here today. You are not the only one suffering from grazing and eating continuously. I do it too. It is on my mind a lot. I ate two pieces of cinnamon raisin toast this morning with butter. I want a blueberry muffin that I made last night and I want to make chocolate chip cookies from scratch. I don't want my daughter to be heavy. She's 3 now and she is at the 97th %ile in height and weight. It is always on my mind. She loves junk, so does my husband, who does not have to worry about his weight. Only you can comfort yourself. I"m looking for new outlets. Eating is bad, shopping is bad, reading is ok, but I want to snack. It's a struggle. You are not alone in your struggle...........I'm here too. Take care and give yourself a hug from me. Denise
danluvsme
on 1/22/05 2:22 pm - Exeter, RI
Topic: RE: I FEEL LIKE A FAILURE
I do feel the love. THAT is why I posted. I have been swirling into a depression. It has been coming on for the last week. Only someone who suffers from chronic depression would understand that. Thre is no "snapping out of it". But either way, I am just angry right now. Angry at myself, surgery, the way I can eat, the way that NOTHING bothers me. Tonight, and I am embarrassed to admit this, my son baked suger free chocolate chip cookies. The Pillsbury ready made 12 cookie pack. I ATE 9 OF THOSE 12! Not over the course of the day. All at once. I never do that normally but I just needed some comfort (damn depression). But 9! AND I wasn't full. AND I drank just before it so I should have been full. I hate my pouch right now. I hate my grazing. I can eat every 20 minutes if I let myself. Instead it is more like every 2 hours. I can't seem to control it right now. I think a lot of this is due to this time of year. Wintertime, I eat and eat and eat and then sleep. Hibernation. Come spring, I will be more active and eat less. It's a pattern with me. I pray that come spring, my back will be healed so I can do things. People have said to exercise to relieve the depression. Doesn't work with me. I never get that "high" feeling after a workout. I never get that energized feeling. Most of the time I just want to sit down and relax afterward. See why I feel like a failure? Joanne
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