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Topic: RE: Thinks he can make it perky!!
Paula,
I'm so happy you were able to meet with Dr. Watson. He sounds like a very able and caring doctor. It sounds like you're going to have quite a bit done. I know you must be beside yourself with excitement. I am excited for you!
Personally, I don't think you look horrid at all! You're beautiful both inside and out!
Please keep us posted on whats happening.
Wanda

Topic: RE: Thinks he can make it perky!!
Donna,
That is very encouraging news. You will be so proud of your new perky body. I'm glad they will be able to code things as reconstructive.
Hugs,
Debbie
Topic: RE: Question of the day - Thursday
I will have to have a vacation house on the gulf when I retire but I am also want to retire somewhere where there is lots of open space with green fields so I can have my horses around me.
sarah

Topic: Thinks he can make it perky!!
Hi friends,
Last week I mentioned in a couple of replies to other posts that I was going to UCLA for a plastic surgery consult. Dr. Watson, is a wonderful man as well as skilled microsurgeon. I have 2 colleagues who also had mastectomies and who had reconstruction by Dr. Watson. In a cancer diagnosis, especially, a kind competent surgeon is soo healing in & of itself. It took quite some doing getting into his practice because it is closed to new patients. He limits the procedures he does for his private practice because he wants to "learn and really understand my patient's story".
Anyway, I have so much work to be done. I never had reconstruction on the left side, so now is the perfect time to do both sides. I want a prophylactic removable of my right breast, not so much that I am worried about cancer there, but a matching set of perkiness would be great!! Dr. Watson wants me to first consult with the head of the breast cancer unit Dr. Chang mostly for education concerning my risk for return. He said he would be very happy to make me feel whole again. We were all about in tears at that time. Instead of silicone implants, he will do a tram flap procedure in which fat, skin and muscle are transplanted from my stomach, outer thighs, upper hip or back. The reconstruction usually looks more natural, plus I'll get a tummy tuck or butt lift to boot...all under the "reconstruction" coding!!
After that is all done, we'll talk about what else can be done that is catetorized as "prophylactic" vs "cosmetic" for insurance purposes. My very worst area is my face and neck. I look horrid, I do. Of course that is cosmetic to the tune of.....$8,000!! Dr. Watson said we'll talk about it..so that is encouraging.
Thanks all for listening. Have a great day.
Paula

Topic: RE: Getting some R&R....
I'm envious! My husband would love to do that. I hope we can do some mini vacations like that in the near future. My health and weight stopped me before, and now it is time. Sigh....
Have a great time. Catch some fish for me. BTW what type fish are you going to be fishing for?
Debbie
Topic: RE: Still losing - even slowly?
You will make it. I think you, Julia and I all want to be around the same weight when we finish. (although Julia is just a few lbs away from her goal) You and I will have to try harder. Easier said than done, huh?
Debbie
Topic: RE: Still losing - even slowly?
I'm not your typical weight loss story. I can't and don't know what my end weight will be. I had basically stopped loosing around Nov. and then my weight went up. It wasn't my diet or lack of. It was my anemia. Well, I got that taken care of, and then the hormones are making me gain again. I will have my surgery in 35 days.
, so still won't know what my end results will be. I'm within 24 lbs of my goal weight.( I don't know how much of that is real weight and fluid retention) I do feel terribly bloated right now. I hope that I will make it by my two year anniversary. I lost 6 months of my *honeymoon* period due to health issues. I will have to work at the rest of the weight like *normal* people do.
Julia, you have great results and a great attitude too. I just bet it will continue to melt off slowly, and if it doesn't so what. I know you are thinner and healthier than you ever imagined. I don't want to be a size 4 teeny bopper. I'm hoping to settle into a nice size 10.
Deb


Topic: RE: Getting some R&R....
Hi Wanda,
I want to wish you a very happy anniversary. 23 years is wonderful, I so envy couples who made it together. Much love and happiness. I pray that you and Mark have many more happy, and healthy years ahead together. Enjoy your mini trip and each other.
Love,
Paula

Topic: Getting some R&R....
Just wanted to let you all know that I'll be on a little vacation starting tomorrow. Didn't want you to think I had fallen off the face of the earth.
Mark and I are going on a 4 day mini-vacation to Mountain Home, Arkansas for our 23rd anniversary. We're taking the boat and are planning on doing some serious fishing. I CAN'T WAIT!!!
Everyone, have a great weekend!
Wanda
Topic: RE: Still losing - even slowly?
Julia,
I was just thinking about this same thing this morning. I have been losing maybe 1 pound a month since December. I would still like to lose about 29 more pounds.
Its nice to know that my current eating habits permit me not to gain any weight and continue to lose ever so slowly. This is the first time in my life that I haven't "done without" and not gained weight.
Wanda
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