How much have we gained (and I don't mean weight)?

Thought I would put a new spin on the question of "how much have we lost" and ask How much have we gained? I have gained new self respect. I have gained freedom of movement. I have gained a healthier lifestyle. I have regained my good health. How about you???? Mary

Good thinking, Mary. I'll play... I've gained better posture. I've gained a renewed love life with my husband I've gained a better sense of motherhood...and how my actions impact my beautiful daughter. I've gained a CLOSET that is nearly empty, but who the He** cares? Denise

Hello Mary, I have gained self respect I have gained freedom of movement I have gained a good nights sleep I have gained a sense of humor I have gained happiness and so much more. Trisha

Good question and great responses already! I have gained: Self-confidence Awareness Love of life Awesomely-improved relationships with those I love Patience Respect

Great question! I have gained a new respect for myself. I have gained the confidence to want to go to school and change careers. I have gained the freedom to eat out in public without feeling embarrassed. I have gained the freedom to dance again without feeling stupid. and i have gained the choice to wear high heels and short skirts! (now if i just had the money!LOL) kelly who saw Toby Keith Saturday and would like to gain the right to have his shirt!!!!!

I HAVE GAINED THE ABILITY TO MOVE AROUND WITHOUT LOSING MY BREATH. THE ABILITY TO PLAY MORE WITH MY CHILDREN. MORE SELF CONFIDENCE. ALSO ALOT OF MATERIAL FROM THE CLOTHES THAT I GREW OUT OF! ALSO THE LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP OF MY FEBRUARY WEIGHT LOSS BROTHERS AND SISTERS! ANNETTE 291/186/165

OK Mary, this really is kind of a tough one for me since I didn't have a lot of issues before surgery. I like (mostly) what I see in the mirror (with clothes on) even though I don't really believe it yet. Had hubby take pictures this weekend and couldn't believe what I saw. I like being able to physically do WAY more than I could before with about the same amount of pain. I will never be pain-free, but it is better. This is a big one since I'm hoping to run a 10K in a few weeks. What I have to say means a little more at work. I'm viewed as more competent (even though I was just as competent before). Linn

I have gained a renewed sense of self! I have gained the ability to speed walk up cardiac hill on campus and NOT be out of breath! I have gained a healthier lifestyle I have gained the ability to make smart and healthy choices. I have gained control of my life! I have gained the respect of myself and a lot of admiration from people who care for me! I have gained a more active social life! (some dates!) I have gained an empty closet and learning about what sizes I actually wear now!