my surgery is the same day. congratulations. i am scared too--very scared.

Hi Tanika, We are in the same boat my date is 1-21-08, just curious do you have to do a liq diet, I know some require it and some don't. Good luck to you for a speedy recovery. Toshika

Congratalations to you and also good luck.

Hi there, I am not travelling that far to have surgery, but it is two hours away. My husband will be with me before the surgery, after the surgery and will be staying close by. My son should be driving down to be there for me. Best of luck and let's all look forward to a healthy 2008~

Hi there, Anneke -- My son and my mother would prefer that I did not have the surgery based on risks associated. I totally understand how they feel, but I do my best to point out the pros and cons and risks associated by not doing the surgery. The hospital that has approved my surgery has a great support group. I have been going to meetings once a month and will continue after surgery. I nearly lost it when I got up to speak last month. It's important that you surround yourself with positive people. It's also good to talk openly about your fears. My husband offers excellent support! He is also a gastric by pass success; he had surgery in 2004. He looks awesome! Keep the faith and good thoughts.