getting nervous!

I had been doing well, carefree, worry free until yesterday. My surgery is on the 17th. I have been lurking the boards and all of a sudden it hit me....I am having surgery! Any positive calming words would be appreciated.

I certainly understand how you feel I have had some of the same feelings ...My surgery is Jan.12. I was supposed to have it done before Christmas and then got hit with bronchitis. I really think it was a blessing in disguise as I am now more at peace with my decision. I have struggled with my weight for so long and at 47 being disabled not only due to it but, a host of other issues ....well its not fun at all. This is going to change our lives ...in fact I hope to get mine back so to speak. I know for me I rely on God's help and know He will see me through this ...Its normal to be nervous but, try and take a deep breath and realize this is a chance for a new beginning for you. Feel free to add me as a friend and we can support one another through our new beginning. I hope this helps encourage you... Take care, Karen

Hiyas Nancy, when you get scared about it just think about all your health issues now and what type of things you have to look forward to if you don't get it. Think about all the multitude of thing you are missing out on. When I do this I know that I am doing the right thing for myself and my family. I pray and thank God for looking out for me and bringing this option into my life, I know I will be in his hands the day of surgery. We have come so far hon. We deserve this new chance at a better more healthy life!! I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers!! Anna

Just try and relax, pray, and go with the flow, it will be a woderful ride in the long run.

Nancy, I am totally with you. When I first found out I was approved, I freaked. It was like I was stuck in a room with no way out and I was searching to find the exit. But then after posting my fears on this site and being told how normal it was, I realized that this is the best thing for me and my family. Me active, healthy, and ALIVE. That is what has kept me going. Every test I go to, and every time somone tells me what to expect, I get scared again, but I have to remind myself that this is what I need to live a healthy and happy life. I wish you peace of mind in the New Year, and hope that all your prayers are answered. Crystal