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Jersey
on 12/9/08 11:00 am - Northern, NJ
Topic: RE: Please Read! PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE!!!

My word, Woman!  You have been pregnant forever it seems...how can you expect to lose weight?  You are constantly nurishing babies!!

I know that you will get it under control...I have confidence that we ALL can. Well, at least I have the confidence now that I am back.  I was worried about it for a while!

And...um...did I read correctly?  Did you say before you get pregnant AGAIN!?!  I can barely handle ONE!  How do you handle a flock?!

In awe of you, as always...

Love and hugs,
Me

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Surgery date:  January 30, 2006 - Lap. RNY
Age:  38       Height:  5'10"
Highest/Surgery Weight:  293
Ideal Body Weight:  160
Current Weight:  Fluctuating!
Pounds till GOAL:  I was at goal but let's re-evaluate once I have the baby!
Jersey
on 12/9/08 10:56 am - Northern, NJ
Topic: RE: Please Read! PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE!!!
Hey Lady!

Yes!  January 1st will be our re-committment date!  I am supposed to see my surgeon at the end of January but, I have to tell you, unless I get my weight a bit more under control, I am not going!  It truly is a waste of time, anyhow.  I end up waiting more than an hour just to talk to him for 2 minutes.  I will get my bloodwork done, though...I just don't want to see him (well, I want to see his yummy face but you know what I mean).  Plus, my insurance changed and I don't think he takes it.  Ah well.

It was SO great chatting with you the other night.  I feel so inspired by it!!!

Have a great night!

JM
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Surgery date:  January 30, 2006 - Lap. RNY
Age:  38       Height:  5'10"
Highest/Surgery Weight:  293
Ideal Body Weight:  160
Current Weight:  Fluctuating!
Pounds till GOAL:  I was at goal but let's re-evaluate once I have the baby!
Jersey
on 12/9/08 10:53 am - Northern, NJ
Topic: RE: Please Read! PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE!!!
Hey Steph!

Anytime you post you are being a productive member!!  I am so happy that you will be around more often.  I am going to do my very best to do the same! 

Thanks so much for joining in!!

Love and hugs and happy holidays!!

JM
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Surgery date:  January 30, 2006 - Lap. RNY
Age:  38       Height:  5'10"
Highest/Surgery Weight:  293
Ideal Body Weight:  160
Current Weight:  Fluctuating!
Pounds till GOAL:  I was at goal but let's re-evaluate once I have the baby!
Jersey
on 12/9/08 10:50 am - Northern, NJ
Topic: RE: Please Read! PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE!!!

Hey Carly!

Congratulations on both keeping your weight off AND your upcoming wedding!  When is the date?

Have a wonderful holiday season!

Love and hugs,
JM

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Surgery date:  January 30, 2006 - Lap. RNY
Age:  38       Height:  5'10"
Highest/Surgery Weight:  293
Ideal Body Weight:  160
Current Weight:  Fluctuating!
Pounds till GOAL:  I was at goal but let's re-evaluate once I have the baby!
Jersey
on 12/9/08 10:43 am - Northern, NJ
Topic: RE: Winter blues Just venting
Hey Nik!

Thanks so much for posting.  I am so, so happy to hear how everyone is doing!!

I am not sure what you meant by anyone feeling bad about what you are writing.  Whether you gained 5 lbs or 50, it all hurts and it all feels a bit like failure, right?

And...yes!  I am right there with you.  My son is an angel one day, son of satan the next.  There is no rhyme or reason to it.  And money issues?  Phew...don't get me started...

I think my biggest issue right now is being a married "single" Mom.  My hyper-ambitious husband (not a bad thing...especially in this economy) works about 80 hours a week.  So taking care of the house, the high-maintenance dog and my Jekyll and Hyde son, in addition to working 50 hours, myself, in a stressful job and taking care of 99% of the household chores is taking its toll on me.

I guess that toll plus feeling like a WLS failure is what made me run back to this board.  I am SO glad that you guys answered my plea!  I am so grateful!

So here's to re-committing to a healthy lifestyle!! 

Love and hugs and a very happy holiday!!

Jersey
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Surgery date:  January 30, 2006 - Lap. RNY
Age:  38       Height:  5'10"
Highest/Surgery Weight:  293
Ideal Body Weight:  160
Current Weight:  Fluctuating!
Pounds till GOAL:  I was at goal but let's re-evaluate once I have the baby!
Jersey
on 12/9/08 10:25 am - Northern, NJ
Topic: RE: Jersey Mom's Request
Hey Kelli:

Thanks so much for posting an update.  CONGRATULATIONS on your twins!  How exciting!!  You are right...no worries about weight...your babies need it!!

Best of luck to you all!
Love and hugs,
Jersey
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Surgery date:  January 30, 2006 - Lap. RNY
Age:  38       Height:  5'10"
Highest/Surgery Weight:  293
Ideal Body Weight:  160
Current Weight:  Fluctuating!
Pounds till GOAL:  I was at goal but let's re-evaluate once I have the baby!
Kelli ~.
on 12/9/08 10:01 am - Atwater, CA
Topic: RE: Jersey Mom's Request
I am having Boy and Girl: Richard Scott and McKenna Victoria. Due: this might change because they are twins, but April 7th that's going full 40  wks which I doubt that...so I say Mid March.
WINNIE THE POOH



 

Ladybugmom
on 12/9/08 9:51 am - Lockport, NY
Topic: RE: Please Read! PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE!!!
Anna you are alot braver than me.....I don't want to disappoint my surgeon so I have not made an appointment. I should have seen him a few months ago.....I have had my blood work done so I know I am "OK". I even ignored my yearly pap smear!

I do go to my monthly support meetings and have spoke about the regain there and with the RN co ordinator who is married to my surgeon!
Hugs and Miss you!,
Chris

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Anna_M
on 12/9/08 9:16 am - Belleville, IL
Topic: RE: Please Read! PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE!!!
Hello Everyone, 

  Jersey and Chris  you know you are NOT alone at all.  I feel like I've failed also.  Things were
going great for 2 years then it seemed like all of sudden I just started gaining weight back.
My lowest was 144lbs...I'm back up to 173lbs.  I feel totally disgusted with myself but I have noone to blame.   I eat candy like crazy..almost like an obsession.   I can't seem to stop myself from eating.  I've gone from a size 6 pants back to a size 12.  It SUCKS..
I want to get back on track..but my mind isn't cooporating.   I do lurk all the time...I just didn't want to post that I'm a failure at this surgery... I have my appt. with my surgeon the end of the month
maybe he can shed some light on how to get back on track.

Hugs,
Anna

Anna
Surgery date 1/20/06
245 starting/145current/130goal :-)


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Jen Jen J.
on 12/9/08 8:11 am - Houston, TX
Topic: RE: Please Read! PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE!!!

I don't have time for a long post, I am getting ready to go to my gfs baby shower ...  but I do have a lot to say .....

I will just start with ... I am 50 - fifty - 50 pounds heavier than when I got pregnant with Faith.  I am giving birth next Tuesday, taking 6 weeks to recover and establishing my milk supply and I will be back on the wagon so to speak. 

I don't want any scolding, I would not give up my babies for the weight gain AT ALL!  I just want to get some of the weight off before I get pregnant again.

Love ya all!

God Bless! Jen 
Mark 9:37a
"Whoever welcomes one of these little children in my name welcomes me."
    

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