Ok, Jersey, I am here

Kristi H.
on 12/20/08 11:55 am - wildomar, CA
I have been lurking for a long time now.  With my job I can't check in often, at least can't post, I can read at times.

But mostly I tried to come back to the main board and post and I was jumped on for advise that was always appreciated before.  I also realized I didn't really know anyone there.

Then I checked out here.  I felt bad, not because I had gained the weight, but because I have kept it off.  I feel like I would be slapping you all in the face by saying how I have managed somewhat easily to maintain my weight. 

But I am here and will do what I can, if anything.

My update.  I hate my job, but at least I am working.  I drive a truck to Atlanta or Charlotte each week with my husband.  I am either driving or trying to sleep.  The truck is always moving.  So when I am not working/driving, I still can't do anything.  So I feel like I am waisting my life.

I want to work in entertainment.  But with the economy, I can't take the chance.

I am thinking of going back to school to finish my BA, I only have 7 classes to take.  Then get my teaching credentials.  I can only do it on line and am not sure I can even manage one class at a time with the job I have.  It also will cost alot, meaining more student loans.

But I have succeded at my weightloss.  I go up and down a few pounds, but when I go up, I can usually get it back down in a week  or so.  I made sure of a few things.  One I still can only eat 1/2 a cup of soft foods, less of meats.  I eat mostly fat free or low fat foods.  I also do not ever eat sugar, I still dump.  I guess at times I am still obsessed with food, in not eating things that are too high in calories.  I do eat what I want, what I crave, I just find it in a way I can accept.  I have eaten hambergers, fries, and a few other things, but that is rare (except the fries, I have been eating them too often lately, that is changing).

I can offer other choices for foods if anyone is interested in finding something that is an ok food for a food they like that isn't so ok.

Guess that is the catch up on me.  Take care everyone.

264/134/150/138
pre/now/Dr.G/My Goal
AT GOAL!!!!!!!!!!!!
BB!!

18 years out and still at a weight I love.

Ladybugmom
on 12/21/08 9:47 am - Lockport, NY
wow I swear I posted a comment before but now I do not see it!  I am so hating this new format. I am sorry to hear you hate your job, hopefully it will get better! I am proud of you for being able to keep your weight off. I am hoping for myself to get back on track and to return to the gym in the beginning of January. Have a great holiday!

Hugs, Chris

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Jersey
on 12/23/08 2:37 am - Northern, NJ
Hey Kristi:

I often wonderered if some folks stayed away from this board because, unlike me, they HAVE maintained their weight and felt uncomfortable mentioning that.  Personally, I do not find that a slap in the face.  I find it MOTIVATING!  I already know it is ME who failed...not the surgery.  So I would love to look to people like you...find out what you are doing right...and be reminded that it CAN be done right...long term.

Congratulations on maintaining!!  I think it is great!  And thank you so much for coming back.  Please stick around...we ALL need your support!

Oh...and I think you should take the plunge and finish your BA...and take up teaching.  It is a ***** of a job but so incredibly rewarding! 

I hope that 2009 is a great year for you!!  Happy Holidays!

Love and hugs,
Jersey
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Surgery date:  January 30, 2006 - Lap. RNY
Age:  38       Height:  5'10"
Highest/Surgery Weight:  293
Ideal Body Weight:  160
Current Weight:  Fluctuating!
Pounds till GOAL:  I was at goal but let's re-evaluate once I have the baby!
Alejandro Gonzalez
on 12/24/08 2:37 am - Zapopan, Mexico
Hey Kristi!!!

I am soooo happy to know of you!!! I am sorry to know that your job is not as rewarding as you deseve it to be...

Reading your message I could'nt help but wondering how selfish I have been sharing my happyness about maintaining my weight. So far to be honest I don't know how to face the situaton trying to support all my brother and sisters here.

I am happy that you came back. I want you to know that you were missed.

Alex
Kristi H.
on 12/24/08 2:58 am - wildomar, CA
I have been thinking of you this holliday season.  This has got to be the most wonderful Christmas you have had in many years!  A job, your family with you, and at a wonderful weight.  You have got to be glowing with happiness!

Did you once say you were on facebooks?  Let me know, I just signed up a couple weeks ago, so just checking.


Merry Christmas my friend!

264/134/150/138
pre/now/Dr.G/My Goal
AT GOAL!!!!!!!!!!!!
BB!!

18 years out and still at a weight I love.

Alejandro Gonzalez
on 12/24/08 3:58 am - Zapopan, Mexico
Tiffany invited me to join there. I haven't done it yet. As soon as I am there I will contact you...!!!

Yes I am having a wondeful Christmas...!!!

Thank you!!! This year started really bad but ended in the most wonderfull way... I could not dream to have so many blesses fo far.

Your Friend

Alex
Ms T.
on 12/25/08 9:48 am - Northern Chicagoland, IL
 Merry Christmas!!  If you are on Facebook please connect - if you dont have my full name I will send a PM, I cant seem to place yours to track you down.  

Look forward to keeping in touch through there...

xoxo

Tiff
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