You are all here!
Maybe not all, but a lot of you are here...so nice to see you. And we seem to all be having similar experiences. People telling us we look sick...gaining weight, trying to lose weight...and divorce! I, too, am divorcing. I am so inspired by seeing all you beautiful people. I am jumping back on track right now! My lowest weight was 142 (mom said I looked sick.) Now I am 150...I want to be 145. If I get my act together right now...I should be fine. But my eating has been out of control since my trip to Disneyland with my kids 2 weeks ago. NO MORE! I worked too hard to get here!
Big change of thought. I know in my old life, 5 lbs would mean nothing, it would be 5 lbs and I would do nothing about it, they added up. Now for me, 3 lbs is the limit, something I can loose in less than a week. So you are doing wonderful.
I got the "eat a sandwich", but my face has filled out some, so i don't look so gaunt. I actually lost a little more and look better. Guess we keep changing even after we stop loosing, it resituates I guess.
Best of luck and all.
Alan I am sorry you are hurting and want you to know it is not all marriages that end this way. I have a very supportive husband both at my heaviest and at my lightest. I am so sorry you both were not able to work through your struggles...Marriage is a commitment that requires constant work. I hope you find happiness in your life!
Sending hugs,
Chris