Update

Hi Everyone, Just thought I'd pop in & say hi to you lovely ladies. My life has been crazy & busy as can be. I had a terrible cold 3 weeks ago and last weekend was the first day I was feeling better. I then had severe constipation & have been told to take 2 Collace pills daily, all that Iron we have to take. (TMI) My social life has sucked, partially my fault. I guess I expected guys to be different once I lost the weight but they still are jerks. (sorry if any guys are on here) I had a date with an old high school friend & he gave me the excuse of "I'm not ready for a commitment, I have a fear of them". Whatever, I moved on. Then I went to a bar for a friends birthday & meet a really nice younger guy (25) and spent 2 weekends hanging with him. Well all of a sudden he won't return my calls or text messages, pretty much said see ya without letting me know. I'm upset & hurt because I thought it was going well but apparently he thought differently. So this weekend I'm going to chill with the girls & give up on the men for a while. Work is good & I'm looking forward to the holiday season. My family is well also. Hope you all are doing well & feel free to drop me an email if you want to catch up. Hugs, Carly

Carly, glad to ee you back. Your love life will turn around when you are least expecting it.... Glad everything else is going good. Hugs, Chris

Girl.... guys suck lol. I have been to the clubs/bars often lately and most only want one thing from me. Dude, get a life ha ha. Tonight my gal pals and I are heading to our local fave and just having fun. If we get free drinks, more power to us! Glad to hear you're doing better!

Glad to hear that you are on the mend and feeling better each day. Men are nuts. My best piece of advise is to realize it is a numbers game and to not take anything personally. The second part is the hardest as the whole objective is to get personal, right? But remember that men dont think of it that way. We want closeness then physical, they assess you for the physical and then think about possibly hanging out with you. and they are all highly skilled in avoidance techniques - the ole 'just dont respond and that will tell her I've moved on' - where are the manners in today's world? Know we're with you. GIRL POWER!!!

Sorry you were sick, nice to know you are feeling better....... Sorry about the guy issue they always see to pop up when your not looking, and yes so many of them have no manners.......I do know there are good one's out there though. HAVE A GREAT DAY TORI

Thanks so much for the kind words ladies, I appreciate it. I will just hang in there and chill with the girls. Girl Power!!

There is one thing about men. You change the package and they look at the package, but underneath they are still the same old dogs. My philosophy about men and I am married to one of the critters. Only he liked me fat. God only knows why. Hazel

I had the very same thing happen with a guy I was seeing. Everything was "perfect" then out of nowhere I was deleted from his myspace. I thought there was a mistake so I texted, called, and emailed for one day...got nothing. So I sent one final email to give myself closure. Two days later I go on an online dating site and who do I see? HIM!! I didn't say anything to him...just couldn't believe him...I feel that is a very cowardly approach to ending a relationship. I agree with you though...the dating pool is a tuffie. Just look at each failed relationship as a little "rehersal" so when the right one comes along you'll know it. Dawn

hi Carly sorry to hear about the jerks if only i was younger and not 41 keep your chin up. we all are not that bad. dave

Thanks Dave, you are looking fabulous by the way.