If things ain't workin', change them.
Hazel my dear,
I wish I were there so I could give you a great big hug and tell you it will get better.
But you have taken that hard first step to getting better. You must do what's best for you in the long run. Without looking out for you, you can't help anyone else.
Good for you for doing that. You are important!
Sending many hugs,
Ronna