For Those Without Myspace...(LONG)

Exactly!!! All I can do is be thankful for T.. had I not met/been with him I wouldn't have any confidence with the opposite sex lol! I have one sister... she and I have gotten closer in the past year... we used to be at each other's throats daily, but now... she actually misses me while she's gone lol. Your mother is a wise woman! Give her a hug for me!

Jaci, sorry to read about your breakup. It sounds like you're in a good place in your mind at this point. Sometimes things are meant to be even though they seem to hurt so bad! The right guy will come along eventually, but at least you have this first experience behind you and you know you survived it! Hang in there and keep having a good outlook and a good time. Karla

I'm hangin' in there, KArla! How are you doing, sweetie?

Hey Jaci I'm sorry to hear about you and T. I know exactly what your going though and understand how you are feeling but you sound like your gonna be alright! I got through it and know you can to! Kay

Thanks KAy!

Jaci, Things will get better I promise. There is a saying about love.... I think it goes like this.... Love isn't love to you give it away... If it comes back it is yours ..... If it doesn't it never was...... Good luck, your true love will come.. Hugs, Chris

Thanks alot Chris. I'm doing great now

Hey Girl, I just read your post....I am so sorry, and sooo sorry for not keeping in touch with you. Hey, lets get together...I need some reevaluation as well and I think it would be good for us to just talk, and kick back for a few laughs. I hope you have my phone number, but it not...if it's okay, I'll text you and perhaps we can meet up sometime next week. I'm going through a phase as well, I've met a guy on Match.com, we are hitting off great but it's hard waiting cause his work is very demanding...he works for Gallo in Modesto so he works all the time, and this week has been crazy so haven't seen him...anywho, it's the transformation from old Kelli to today Kelli and I am struggling as well with my body image and other crazy issues...funny thing is, i am doing my thesis on this very thing!!! Hey, maybe you might want to be a part of my little group that we are getting together to help me focus what is needed for my thesis. Anywho...text me or I'll text you tomorrow, and let's get together and just pick each other up! As for your relationship, reflect on the positive things you learned from it, grow from it and see where you want to go in life...never settle!!! You're too great of a gal!!! TTYL Kelli

Darling Jaci ~ I am so sorry to hear of the end of your relationship with T. People come in and out of our lives for a time and reason, clearly he was in yours to show you the love and compassion people can have for each other at a time in your life where you were going thru an incredible transformation. It was special and I hope you can work thru the pain to honor the memory of a good time yet acknowledge and put it in the past. And keep high your standards, never accepting anything less than full honor of who you are and what you deserve. It's painful to work thru but never forget that when one door closes, another opens and usually with bigger and better opportunities. I remember when we all met here that you regularly had stories of men chasing you and that was just after surgery. I know it will be no different for you now with even more men. Take your time. Meet and date many. Enjoy and think about what qualities are important to you....even make a list so you have something to look at as you think about people you will meet. While I've not had a relationship in a long time, I keep true to my standards for those I do date. As you said, YOU ARE REAL, YOU ARE A GODDESS. Honor and love her. We do.... LMK if you want to talk more...I am here for you. Love and friendship, Tiffany