Drama in my life

Yesterday I moved to South carolina with my parents and daughter so this is now my home again. A few days after we moved, my partner told me that she cheated on me. She expected me to get over it and pretend like it never happened. I couldn't. We argued everyday and it was stressing me out!!!!! I have never been cheated on and this hurts. Our 6 1/2 year relationship.. GONE! Yesterday as I'm packing my stuff she said, I cheated because i like girls bigger. You are too skinny now. That hit me like a ton of bricks!!!! i'm not skinny! That hurt worse than her telling me she cheated. I know it was probably said out of anger because I was leaving but i keep looking in the mirror wondering if i'm loosing too much weight. Anyway, I have been so dependant of her for 6 1/2 years. The thought of getting out, getting a job and apartment scares me. The good thing is that I'm here with my daughter again. Please say a prayer for me. I need it. I haven't taken much vitamins lately or touched protein in a few weeks. I feel bad. My period came a week ago and has not went off. I guess it's from stress. Anyway, I needed to let that out. Thanks for the support you guys continue to give me. Thanks for the comments on my 200 lb. mark too Love you guys, Kay

Kay, My heart breaks for you. You are such a sweet person and please do not let her angry hurtful words penatrate to you. You have come a long way and should only be proud of who you are and where you came from. Concentrate on you and your lovely daughter and I am sure you will be fine. We are all here if you need us! Hugs and Kisses! Chris

So sorry to hear about your relationship Kay. Big hugs & kisses coming your way. If you need to talk feel free to email me. Carly

Oh Kay, I am so sorry this is happening to you. You and your daughter are still and will always be in my thoughts. You can do this... I know you can. You are one of the strongest people I know! Jaci

Kay I will be thinking about you. Remember you decided to go through this adventure of weight loss for you. To be a healthy person and to be there for your daughter. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. You are a strong will woman just look at yourself and what you have accomplished this past year.......Sending you hugs Your January 2006 Angel Suzan

Kay, I am so sorry she did this to you. She said those things out of anger to make herself feel better for cheating. If someone is going to cheat they will cheat no matter what. Do not feel bad about yourself you have done an amazing job with your weightloss and should be very proud of yourself. Get back on track with your vitamins and protein take care of yourself for you and your daughter. We're here for you! Hugs, Anna

Kay, Don't let her make you second guess yourself. You are so close to your goal. I am sure it's hard to stay positive when you are so hurt, but you are worth more than that. I am so proud of you and the tremendous progress you have made. I didn't have time to reply yesterday but celebrated for you on your 200 lb. loss, and I know it's much more than that because you had done such a good job of loosing before surgery. I look up to you! Feel free to email me if you need to talk. Leeanne

Kay, I hope you are feeling better soon...take this as an opportunity for a fresh start, I know it's scary. One of the things that they counseled me on at my initial surgeon visit was the possible change in long term relationships, I understand it is very common with this much of a change in your life and yourself. I am sorry that it happened to you in such a hurtful way. Praying For You Tori

Oh dearheart. My heart aches for you. But you are a strong woman and you will survive this too. A new start is scary but can be exciting as well. You desearve someone who can cherish the women inside, not just what they see on the outside (even though your outside is pretty wonderful). And NO you have not lost too much weight. You did what you needed to do to get healthy and be able to stay healthy for a long time. And you know that you have our support ALWAYS and anytime you need it. Sending love and hugs, Ronna

Kay, I'm so sorry to hear about the riff raff going on in your life! You're such a sweet person, and you deserve only the best. She probably liked the fact that you depended on her, and she now sees that you're loving life....jealousy. Please don't change the way you are because of her. Now, you're with your daughter, which is your priority now. Remember to take care of yourself, girl! April