I know I have failed and I am sorry

Good morning, Everyone: As good as I am with some things is a horrid as I am with others. And I know I have failed you all with the website I created for us...and I am terribly sorry. 99% of my OH-related activities (Holiday Card Exchange, Secret Pal) are done at work when I get the chance to pop online. However, I cannot update the website from work because of firewall restrictions. Additionally, the PC that I had the website files on at home is dead...and I have not had time to figure out how to fix it (it was not on my primary laptop). Quite simply, I bit off more than I could chew with that one. I had such high aspirations for it...but no time to back it up. And I am really sorry. I hate not following through with something...it is something I try never to do. But the fact is that I work 45-50 hours a week...and I have a 2-year-old who is not well much of the time. When I am home, I am cooking, cleaning or spending time with my son. I would say my husband, too, but he works 70-80 hour weeks and I pretty much never see him. The weekends are filled with more housework, errands and, again, my beautiful boy. I apologize to you all for not keeping up with the site. But I am, in a small, pathetic way, relieved to finally come out and admit that I just cannot keep it active. If I find time in the future, I will let you know. Until then, I hope you can forgive me. All my love, Jersey

Jersey, always remember that family comes first. You DO NOT need to apologize at all. Seeing you post here is good enough! Hope you get some rest soon, and you're superwoman in my eyes! April

Jersey-You don't need to apologize, family comes first. Your always in my thoughts as a caring & giving person. You give us your OH "Family" plenty of time & I know I appreciate it.

Jersey, You do not have to apologize for anything. It was a great idea you did what you could. That's all anyone can ask of any of us. You have gone above and beyond on here with the OH Christmas card sign up and now the secret pal sign up. We appreciate all that you do!! We love you for trying You're in my prayers always. Try to slow down a little and enjoy life Hugs, Anna

Jersey, YOU have not failed us! You are supportive, caring and giving! You did such an AWESOME job with the Christmas card exchange. I did other exchanges and your list was the best! I could look right at the pics and know who I was sending the card too now that was GREAT! Now you are doing the Secret Pal list and I know you are giving it your personal touch. And we appreciate all of it! We are glad to have you here on the January boards posting when you can. Spend time with your beautiful son and continue with your success in your WLS. We are here for you too whatever the need!! Hugs, Julie whoappreciatesyoursmilingfaceonOHandmyspace

i say the same familly comes 1st and there is no need to apologize. dave

Awww Jersey, I know how hard it is to want to do something and then not be able to have it work out, even though it was beyond your control. You have done so much for us as a group, don't be sorry! You had good intentions and that is what counts! Leeanne

How could you have failed? No one else did what you did. No reason to feel bad? Karla 337/184/150

Jersey you can't be all things to all people. While it would have been nice I understand. I have to laugh when I pop over there and it still says your on vacation until July 12th, I thought to myself of what year? You can only do what you can do. Don't sweat the small stuff sweetie.

If anyone (besides You) think you failed, then just let them take that project on. Like Ronna said "don't sweat the small stuff". Family does come first. And family understands, and that is what we you January family do, is love you and understand. Hazel