My Letter to Oprah
Yesterday's Oprah show kinda sent me over the edge. I am not sure what Oprah's beef is and why she is compelled to continually portray the negative aspects of WLS. So I decided to write her a letter.
Here it is ...
Dear Oprah & Staff,
I would like to tell you many people have positive and life changing results after Gastric Bypass surgery. I strongly encourage you to do a show that portrays the positive aspects of this surgery and show lives where the outcome is a success.
I had RNY in January 2006. I have lost 113 pounds and gained a whole new life. I would like to lose 23 more pounds. Honestly, if I do not lose one more pound I consider this surgery a success. I can do multitudes of activities that were impossible before this POSITIVE life altering surgery. For example, I am mothering 4 children under 3 years old; 34, 25, 16 and 11 months. One is my biological child and the other three are foster children, two of whom we hope to adopt. I would never have had the energy to take on 4 kiddos weighing 306 pounds. Additionally, I have swung on the swings with the kids, rode in a plane without a seatbelt extender, spent 4 days walking Manhattan, went to a Broadway show w/o squeezing into the seats and many, many more wow moments!
I do not drink, smoke, use drugs, or have sex with strangers (or anyone I know except my husband.) My husband has not freaked out and become jealous, abusive or a jerk, he still loves me and supports me as before. We go to church, are involved with various ministries and attend bible study. I am a stay-at-home mom and my husband has a normal job. My family has supported & encouraged me through this process. I have skin issues which some people look at as a negative result of surgery. But, you know what, I would rather have 30 pounds of loose skin than 113 pounds of FAT FILLED skin. I will take my saggy arms, legs and belly over tightly stretched FAT FILLED skin any day.
Please be fair on this topic, thousands of people have regained their lives as a result of this surgery.
GOD BLESS!
Jen Johnson
Well said Jen, I think that some people are prone to addiction regardless of what they weigh or end up weighing after surgery. I personally ate because I was depressed. I can't say that I am still not but I am trying to work through my demons and I will prevail. I think that having a support group as we have hear definitely helps tons.
Great Job!!
I never get to watch Oprah, but I had a Dr. appointment yesterday, and was home in time to see it... I thought it was an awful odd coincidence that I actually got to see the show on GB.
Anyway... I was really kind of ticked...too... I thought about writing, too... I'm sure she will get a flood of mail on that one...
I'm proud of you Jen!
Angela