Please explain the "friend" thingy!!
I don't think it matters who emails you or response to you. My daughters are teens and they have a myspace and can only comment or receive comments by someone on their friend list. It does show on your new profile all your friends...I am not sure of the purpose on this board as I beleive you can still correspond but perhaps in the BLOG area where someone is allowed to comment you, they can only be someone on your friend list so nasty people can not leave comments unless you allow it. Does this make sense?
~~hugs and well wishes~~
Chris

