what do you guys do?

I want to know what you guys do tohide the skin rolls? And get enough courage to get back on the dating wheel? I think if the time ever came they would say how do you have a body of a 80 year old and it not show? I guess I play head games with myself. I am so close to goal, but I am so depressed b/c of the hanging skin. I knew I would have it. I guess it gets to me sometimes. I have been depressed lately b/c of it and the fact that I am still new in my job but they lay the stress on you and it is just Home Depot. It is awful but I called in sick today, because I could not bring myself to be happy to sell appliances today. It takes every part of me and then I have nothing but meaness left for my kids when I get home. It is like my paxil does not work anymore. Does anyone out there have Home Depot insurance that will pay for a tummy tuck? Does anybody feel this but hides it better than me? My best friend can see she says I'm depressed and that I look pale. What do you guys do in these situation? I should be jumping for joy, but..... love, Heather 242/141/130

Hi Heather If it were a choice of being morbidly obese or having hanging skin, I'll choose the hanging skin any day. You may want to try wearing compression undergarments like Lipo In a Box or Spanx. They have them in most higher end department stores but you can get them cheaper on QVC www.qvc.com. I recommend going and trying them on in the store and then order them from QVC. Most insurance companies will not pay for PS unless it is "medically necessary". If you are having problems with rashes and the such you may abe able to get it done but it's iffy. If you continue to be depressed, I would consider talking to a counselor. I'm sure your insurance will pay for that. You've come so far you really need to celebrate your accomplishments. Hang in there. Regards and hugs, Ronna