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Topic: RE: Hello family I have missed you..
Thanks so very much I have requested a consultation for Decemeber while i'm there for the holidays.
Topic: RE: I got...
Vanessa,
You look MAH-velous!! Hubba Hubba!!
I went to Germany in 2004 and I sure didn't come back with a face like that!!! Of course, that was pre-WLS!!
Vickie J.
Topic: RE: Back procedure failed
Lou Ann,
I'm sorry to hear the procedure didn't give you any relief. Don't give up, I'm sure there is something out there that will help. Keep looking. You're in my prayers.
Vickie J.
Topic: Hello family I have missed you..
Hello family, I need your help. I'm looking for a good plastic surgeon in Ft Lauderdale Florida or near Miami. I want to come to the states to get my arms done, and would like to have it done in Florida, so if anyone knows a surgeon please email me at [email protected]
Thanks
Joi In Germany
Topic: RE: Where did all my friends go
Hi Stacy. ((((((HUGS)))))) I know how hard that can be. I've lost several friends along the way too, but I've decided that they weren't "true friends" to begin with or my weightloss would not have split our friendship up. I also do not feel like I have acted badly or flaunted my weightloss in anyway. I'm still the same old me! One "friend" said to someone else (and it got back to me) now that I've lost weight, I only care about myself. I didn't let the words hurt me b/c I know that's not true. My sil was fine with everything until I got into a smaller pants size than her~she's not MO, she just an average size 14. Well as soon as I made it into a 12 she was "soooooo worried about me, she thinks somethings wrong with me, blah blah blah"~now I really don't talk to her much anymore either b/c she tries to verbal undermind my success and make me feel bad about it~I don't need that kind of negativity in my life. I've also seen a few good friends just kind of blend away~meaning they haven't said anything bad about me, they just kinda quit calling, coming around etc (these were not MO people either).
On an upnote, some of my other friendships have grown alot stonger b/c these are the people that have been there for me throughout the last 18mths. Its amazing how the friends I thought would rally around me and be my biggest supporters have not been there for me and other friends that I thought might walk away have been the ones to stick by me! I too have also made new friendships and that's always cool!
I don't attribute it all to jealousy or envy, somtimes that's the case and sometimes its not. I think that most people like to keep people in a "little box". They don't like change. And any change that may be threatening to them personally sends them over the edge so to speak.
Anyway, I could go on and on, but I just wanted you to know that you're not alone. Sorry you're feeling lonely and stunned right now. Things will get better!
Hugs,
Tracy B
328/150
5'9"